As children grow older and older, they become more and more interested in watching TV and playing with their children Fat spokesperson: worried that staying at home makes the child lack of necessary interpersonal communication, language skills can not be fully trained, and become a 'Muggle'. Why do children like to stay at home?
The voice of children
"Mom and dad ignore me." "I just like to stay at home."
Some children are naturally introverted, don't like busy places, don't like to communicate with people, and like to close themselves in a small world. It's hard for other children to open their hearts by reading their favorite story books or drawing pictures to express their feelings. Many parents look at their children at home so clever, obedient, it is not easy to disturb the child's peace. For a long time, in addition to kindergarten, children just want to stay at home, immersed in their own world. Such children have good concentration, but their ability to communicate with others will not be cultivated and exercised. Parents can take their children out to play with children when they are tired of reading or have no inspiration to draw. It can not only regulate their physical fatigue, but also communicate with children of the same age.
Smart Mom's approach
Spend more time with children
Nowadays, many people are living under great pressure. In order to make a living, they are constantly busy every day. However, children should not be the 'victims' of adults' busy life. Even if parents have many things to be busy after they go home, they should also squeeze out time to care about their children's situation in the kindergarten, so as to meet their children's needs of expression and talk. TV, story books and children's dolls can not replace parents' care and communication. Mother can find a fixed chat time, or take the child home, take the initiative to talk with the child about his situation and problems in the kindergarten. If the weather is fine, parents can take their children out for a walk after dinner, talk to them about their work, and invite other children to participate in the conversation. In this way, children's interests will be expanded, and they will go out of the house and explore the vast world.
Set a good example
Parents are children's first teachers, many parents understand this truth, can fall into the details of life, there are still so many parents do not pay attention to their own behavior. Under the influence of their parents, children will unconsciously acquire similar habits with them. It's not surprising that 'home dad and home mom' have a 'home treasure'. Therefore, "stay at home parents" should act quickly, invite friends to participate in physical exercise, take children to outings, picnics, walks and sports, and subtly influence their children to enjoy outdoor activities instead of staying at home all day.
Pay attention to the cultivation of children's sense of partnership
For introverted children, it is unwise for parents to let them immerse themselves in their own small world. When parents find that there are children who are too quiet, they must pay attention to them. First of all, we should communicate more with kindergarten teachers, so that teachers pay more attention to the cultivation of children's partner consciousness. For example, when playing games, let them play some important roles and experience the happiness of playing with children. In daily life, parents should also create more opportunities to play some parent-child games with other parents, so that children can participate and enjoy the fun of cooperation. Usually, after dinner, parents can encourage their children to take their favorite skateboard to compete with the children, or tell their own stories to the children. As long as the children have a good start with the children outdoors, the problem will be easy to solve.
Cultivate children's interest in many aspects
Interest is the best teacher, and early childhood is a good time to cultivate children's interest. Parents can not only cultivate their children's interest in learning, but also guide their children to develop a variety of preferences. For example, parents can often take their children to participate in some social activities and be a little guard of environmental protection in the community. For older children, parents can also take them to develop good exercise habits such as morning running and swimming. With a wide range of interests, children's self-confidence will be enhanced, and their character will gradually become cheerful. Naturally, they don't want to stay at home all day.
Tips
Children watching cartoons need parents' guidance
Everything has both positive and negative aspects. Children watching cartoons can produce both positive and negative effects. Children watching cartoons can satisfy their desire for entertainment and satisfy their emotional needs. They can also see the epitome of social life and knowledge of natural science from cartoons. Excellent cartoons always integrate knowledge and interest. However, children's excessive addiction to cartoons will not only affect their eyesight, but also affect their mental state. How to give full play to the advantages of this double-edged sword and avoid its harm really requires parents' attention.
Parents should preview the cartoons they want to watch to prevent harmful content from invading their children.
When children watch cartoons, parents had better stop what they are doing and accompany them.
When children are too infatuated with some virtual heroes, tell them the exaggerated part in time, and tell them to be a 'hero' with a down-to-earth mind and start with small things.
Children with high consciousness can be allowed to arrange the time of watching animation by themselves, which will help to enhance their self-control ability.
After watching the animation, if children have negative emotions (fear, anger, etc.), parents should find out the reasons in time and resolve them.