How to make children actively love learning? In the psychological clinic, I often hear parents say that children are not interested in learning, but are interested in playing. They can't play enough. However, it's not enough to ask him to do a little more questions. How can children treat learning like watching TV and playing games?
First of all, parents should inspire and guide their children's thirst for knowledge from an early age.
When children are 3 ~ 5 years old, they love to ask why and how is this going on? They asked all sorts of strange questions. For example, why did the electric light shine? Why does the calculator calculate? Why does a chicken have two legs while a dog has four? Wait, children will ask what they encounter. Parents are often tongue tied by them. They impatiently say that they have a headache and don't want to be pestered by children, so they give them to TV and video.
In fact, these problems are just the germination of children's knowledge. In the face of children's problems one by one, parents should patiently explain to their children in easy-to-understand language and guide their children to see the 100000 why? Take your children to nature and let them have a perceptual understanding of some material phenomena.
If the child has no problem, parents should take the initiative to tell their children why. Don't think that children are young and can't understand, but when they don't understand, they have learned a lot of knowledge.
Some psychologists once suggested that parents read some nursery rhymes and stories to infants under one year old, which plays a great role in increasing the amount of information in brain cells. Therefore, parents should not think that their children are not sensible, but their brains are very active and can not ignore their education from childhood. How to cultivate children's healthy extracurricular interests?
Second, parents should enthusiastically encourage their children's interest in learning.
Once a parent asked his 2-and-a-half-year-old child to learn painting. The original intention was to cultivate the child's interest, but when the parents saw the child painting the bird into a big black pimple, they couldn't help saying that the child was too stupid! What is it? Another parent satirized his child when he saw the inappropriate metaphor in his composition. Such an attitude of parents must have a great impact on children's learning enthusiasm, because parents are the first authoritative evaluator in children's mind. They are particularly eager to be affirmed by parents, but parents often don't realize this, and often irresponsibly and easily destroy children's thirst for knowledge.
When children do well, they should be praised. When children do not do well or fail, they should first find the creative side of children, and then encourage children. Parents should not save their praise. What if the child doesn't concentrate in class?
Third, for children who are not interested in learning because of learning difficulties, parents should patiently help their children find the causes of difficulties, help their children master scientific learning methods, and don't lose confidence in their children.
Some children don't concentrate in class and can't do their homework after class. After parents say it several times and the children don't understand it, parents often have no patience and confidence. They say that the children don't pay attention and have no hope. In serious cases, they beat and scold the children, which forms a vicious circle, and the children are more and more not interested in learning. For children with learning difficulties, parents can find a psychologist to check and evaluate their children's learning ability, find their children's problems and correct them with scientific methods