With the aging trend of society, the word "empty nest family" is no longer fresh, and "empty nest elderly" is increasingly common. In the face of the old people who keep the empty houses alone, their children and the society are so powerless, and their children who are reduced to house slaves, card slaves, car slaves & hellip; hellip; don't have to say that the backward pension system and social security system make it difficult for the society to become the last shelter for the old people in the empty nest.
To support the "empty nest old man", the "shortage of material care" may only make people feel helpless, while the "neglect of the general idea" in spiritual care is unjust and unfilial. The loneliness of "going out with a lock, going in with a lamp", the agony of "thinking twice about one's family every holiday", the mood of "looking forward to reunion and thinking about one's children every day" & hellip; & hellip; being a child may not be fully realized, but this does not prevent the tragedy of many 'empty nesters' spiritual world becoming' empty nests' again.
I've heard many stories about 'hard-working children'. Parents devote all their lives to their children's success and hard work, but in the end, it's still a sour story about 'children want to be filial and their parents are not there'. There are not many children who really listen to their parents' lonely heart.
The song "often go home to have a look" in the Spring Festival Gala of 1998 is still sung by people, and it reflects certain social needs. The best filial piety is to give parents what they want. The reason why there will be an old man's "spiritual empty nest" phenomenon is that the children don't know what their parents want, and then they can't give their parents what they want.
In fact, what parents really want is not hard to satisfy. Maybe it's a pair of hands that can 'wash mom's chopsticks and brush dishes' and' help dad beat his back and rub his shoulders'. Maybe it's a wish to 'tell mom about life's troubles' and' tell Dad about work '. Often go home to see if it is difficult to achieve, often call parents, filial piety priceless, filial piety more than, always find a way to the inner world of parents.
Don't let the spiritual world of 'empty nest old man' become 'empty nest'. The author thinks that from the perspective of children, we should first 'read' parents, use 'empathy' to think about the needs of parents, and use 'warm way' to do filial piety; from the perspective of the old man, we should first learn to find fun, actively 'demand warmth', deliberately remind children to change the way of filial piety and get rid of 'empty nest psychology' in time From the social aspect, we should first improve the pension system, strengthen the social security system to keep pace with the times, and accelerate the pace of innovation in community service, volunteer construction, pension funds, psychological intervention and other aspects.