Health reminder: the remaining people are growing stronger and stronger. According to the analysis of relevant experts, the acceleration of urbanization and the expansion of university enrollment have led to the acceleration of large-scale population mobility. In the process of mobility, people's ways of making friends and social circle are gradually shrinking, which often results in the situation that the once familiar social circle is far from hydrolyzing the near thirst.
Type 1: game type -- 'marriage is just an institution'
Everyone has their own love, but when love in the face of reality, people began to feel the existence of love helplessly, so they treat their feelings with a game attitude and go for a one night stand with empty hearts. After making friends, all the passions that had been there last night are gone. Men say that women are emotional animals. Women love fantasies and think they can keep men with their bodies So they began to play with the flag of the body to please men, so the men really hooked, they won't let go of the prey they got, at the same time, they won't cherish the prey they got, so people saw through the love just like seeing through the world of mortals, so their feelings were numb to be single rather than marry.
In a society based on marriage, marriage system is considered to be the most stable system in social management. The bilateral monopoly between husband and wife is considered to be the most reliable relationship among all relationships. Therefore, marriage is regarded as the ultimate destination of all people. As a result, single people who are divorced from marriage are discriminated against from their ideas and systems. Therefore, it is not conducive to social stability.
Type 2: blind date type -- 'marry when you see the right eye'
The definition of blind date is passed on by matchmakers. Men and women agree to meet on a date. Once regarded as a product of the old times, blind dates are popular in the current Beijing situation. Various dating methods have been staged and diversified. Among them, the Internet marriage search has become the most convenient and popular way of "leftover men and women" in the E-era. Some experts predict that dating will continue to heat up in the future and become a part of the life of the lovers.
It is undeniable that the role of blind date is immeasurable. In particular, stupid older youths have no courage to love, have no confidence in themselves, and stay away from the opposite sex. They really need a matchmaker, otherwise it is difficult to sell them. However, there are so many blind dates, and if the good things are not done, the expectations of the blind date will be greatly reduced. It's like buying lottery tickets. If you don't win a penny after you buy too much, you will tell yourself not to be stupid again when you see the lottery. So the heart is quite resistant to such a blind date, the original did not know men and women together and tell you to get married game. However, people are a contradiction. Even if they don't believe something very much, they still hold the psychology of trying again. If a dead horse is a living horse doctor, maybe fate will come at some time. As a result, all kinds of funny or sad dating stories will be staged every once in a while.
Type 3: death type -- 'I believe there is always someone waiting for me in the world'
Tie Ning said, Bingxin old man told her, you don't want to look, you have to wait. Tiening always remembers what the old man said. As a result, 50 years of waiting. She has enough patience with love. Because she said that she had high expectations for marriage, and would rather not have a marriage that was not suitable.
Modern people will freely say that we will not marry because we are old, let alone to get married! However, in our life, who can endure loneliness and live together with ourselves? After all, few people like Tie Ning have enough patience to wait for 50 years. Who dares to say that he can be optimistic all his life alone? Life always needs to find a person to grow old together.
Therefore, Zhang Ailing said this sentence: I want you to know that there is always a person waiting for you in this world, no matter when, no matter where, anyway, you know, there is always such a person. It is the most warm comfort for the lonely and waiting people.