Original title: the reason why Jiangsu boys often arrive late for college with paralyzed mothers is eye-catching
4hw.org went to university and asked his family to rent a house to accompany him to study. He was often late for class, but he didn't want to buy clothes, but he didn't want to take part in work study & hellip; & hellip; in Xuzhou Institute of engineering, pan Zhengjiang, a sophomore majoring in machinery in mechanical and electrical engineering, left such an impression on many students, but everyone was very strange. Pan Zhengjiang's success We are always at the top of the list. We are warm-hearted at ordinary times. Students can always reach out when they need help. The 'enigmatic' boy didn't reveal all his secrets until October this year.
He's a mystery
Mother accompany, often late, refuse to work study
Pan Zhengjiang, 21, is a thin man with a small voice. He often lowers his head shyly when chatting. Since he was admitted to the mechanical major of mechanical and Electrical Engineering College of Xuzhou Institute of engineering last year, except for the top three scores in each examination, he didn't have much sense of existence in the class.
For many students, pan Zhengjiang seems too strange. Every morning, pan Zhengjiang almost stepped on the class bell and entered the classroom. During the 10 minutes' rest in the middle of the class, he often fell on his desk and dozed off. In the middle of the 20 minute break, he always disappeared. When the bell rings again, he is often late and sometimes absent. During lunch time, students never met him on campus. When school was over, he would leave school in a hurry by riding an electric car.
From the first day of school, pan Zhengjiang didn't live in the school. His classmates asked him that he and his mother rented a house outside the school. Some students often said to him admiringly, 'it's so nice to go to college, and my mother is still here to accompany you.' some students once laughed at him, 'how old are you, and let your parents accompany you?' when the students said these words, pan Zhengjiang always smiled gently, and said nothing more. Although we don't spend much time with each other, some students also see that Pan Zhengjiang's family economic conditions are not good, he hardly spends money in school at ordinary times, and can't see him buy new clothes in a year. A classmate once pulled him to work part-time in the school. Pan Zhengjiang always declined his classmate's kindness and said he didn't want to go for the time being. What's more puzzling is that the school once arranged a part-time job for him. After only a few days, pan Zhengjiang resigned with his teacher.
The end of the mystery
He took care of his paralyzed mother as he went to college
In the impression of the students, pan Zhengjiang is not a lonely boy. He has excellent academic performance. He ranks in the top three in each exam. This year, he also won the National Encouragement scholarship. Usually, students have learning questions to ask for advice, he is always enthusiastic response. In all kinds of activities organized by the class, pan Zhengjiang can be with you.
The mystery around pan Zhengjiang was finally solved in October this year.
In the middle of October this year, pan Zhengjiang found Shi Lulu, a counselor of the college, and was going to take a long vacation. He told the teacher that his mother was in hospital and he would accompany him to take care of her. In fact, for Pan Zhengjiang's family situation, only a few teachers in the school of mechanical and electrical engineering know about it. Xin Xiang, a counselor at Pan Zhengjiang's freshman year, told reporters that Pan Zhengjiang arrived early last August and asked him to live on campus because he had to take care of his paralyzed mother. The college also specially coordinated the idle houses for the teaching staff. At last, pan Zhengjiang felt unable to bear the rent, and said he didn't want to cause any trouble to the teachers and students. Finally, he chose a rental house three kilometers away from the campus.
Xin Xiang told reporters that when pan Zhengjiang entered school, he learned that his mother had been paralyzed by cerebral hemorrhage for two years and could not leave at ordinary times, so he came to Xuzhou from his hometown Lianyungang with his mother on his back. Pan Zhengjiang's family is poor, and the family's income can only depend on his father to set up a fruit stall, earning about 1000 yuan a month. Xiao pan also has a younger sister in junior high school. For this reason, the college has opened up a green channel for him, helped him pay his tuition by loan, and applied for a number of national and social bursaries. Pan Zhengjiang once asked Xin Xiang to take care of his mother while studying. He didn't want to disturb other teachers and classmates. Therefore, the college also agreed to help him hide. Xin Xiang gave an example. When he was a freshman, pan often went home to look after his mother during recess. When he returned, he often couldn't catch up with the next lesson, which is why pan was always late. However, pan was often too late to enter the classroom. He could only ask the counselor to write a note. Xinxiang recalled that he couldn't remember how many notes he had written, so he had to ask the teacher of each subject to explain, 'there is something special about this student's family'.
Pan Zhengjiang asked for leave this time, let the college know that he was in trouble again. On October 14, pan Zhengjiang's mother was admitted to the ICU, where she was diagnosed with pulmonary infection, shortness of breath, high blood pressure, sequelae of intracerebral hemorrhage, coronary atherosclerosis and other diseases. Since he was hospitalized, pan Zhengjiang has spent 340000 yuan for his mother, and he can no longer afford the treatment fund of 100000 yuan.
An ill fated past
Brother died, father was sick, mother was paralyzed
On the morning of the 27th, the reporter met pan Zhengjiang and his mother song Wenyun in the new urban area branch of Xuzhou central hospital. For the first time, through the narration of Xiao pan, many people were informed of his three-year hard work in caring for his mother.
Pan Zhengjiang's hometown is Chenxi village, Hongzhuang Town, Donghai County, Lianyungang. His parents are farmers. Except for his seven mu land, the main source of family income is his father's fruit stall. The family's bad luck began when he was in junior high school. Pan Zhengjiang's brother had excellent academic performance, because the family could not afford the tuition fees of three people (brother, pan Zhengjiang, sister). After graduating from junior high school, his brother dropped out of school and sold fruit with his father. Pan Zhengjiang second year of the year, brother had a serious car accident, at home after a year of rest died. In the second year of senior high school, pan Zhengjiang's mother had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. After two relapses, on the eve of his college entrance examination, her mother fell ill again. This time, she managed to escape from the ghost gate, but she was paralyzed in bed and could only eat by stomach tube.
Pan Zhengjiang's father was also in poor health. He had three operations successively. In order to take care of his mother, pan Zhengjiang asked for more than two months' leave before the college entrance examination. At first, pan Zhengjiang had the highest score, and finally his college entrance examination score fell to the top 20 of the class. However, pan Zhengjiang's score in the college entrance examination still exceeded the second tier. When filling in the application, he only gave one condition -- close to home -- and he decided to take his mother to school in the future.
Pan Zhengjiang arrived at the school a month in advance to explain the situation to the school. Then, he began to look for rental houses around the school. Finally, three kilometers away from school, he rented several houses, with a rent of 7000 yuan a year. Pan Zhengjiang said he met a kind landlord, before which he had been rejected by other landlords countless times.
After settling down with his mother, pan Zhengjiang, like when he was in the East China Sea, took care of him while going to school. Mother feeds five meals every day, turns over and massages every two hours, so every day he cuts them into two hours. Every morning, in the middle of the night, he would buy food and cook for his mother three times. At night, he would stay with his mother until 2 a.m. to go to bed. Because of the serious impact on his study, not long after he entered school, he asked his father to move to the rental house, and the father and son set a good time to take care of each other.
Pan Xiaoshe, pan Zhengjiang's father, told reporters that after his wife fell ill, his son took the main care of him. He was not in good health. In order to get financial resources, he would go to a nearby fruit stand during the day. "He's 21 years old this year, and his weight has been up and down 100 Jin," Pan said. After his wife got sick, his son didn't get a good sleep. He had to feed, water, turn over and scrub his wife several times a day. Although he was in bed for a long time, his wife didn't suffer from bedsore and there was no peculiar smell at home. At noon or on weekends, my son would push his wheelchair and take his mother to the park to get a sun exposure.
Pan Zhengjiang's study time is also spent by his mother's bed. He is embarrassed to tell the reporter that because he sleeps too late every day, he often dozes off in class in the daytime, so he can only increase his study time and make up for the lost courses.
Now in trouble
He can't afford the huge medical expenses
Since her illness, her mother has lost her language ability. She has been eating by stomach tube for a long time. Her weight is only 4 or 50 Jin, but her mental state has been very good. The happiest thing for Pan Zhengjiang is to try to make his mother laugh in his spare time. He said that he did not expect medical miracles to happen to his mother, but he hoped that every day his mother lived would be happy. "No matter I study or work in the future, I will always walk with my mother.".
When pan Zhengjiang took the college entrance examination, he hoped to enter a medical college, but because of the tuition and class hours, he felt he could not afford it. He chose the current major because the future employment may involve medical equipment, and he still hopes to work hard on his own to let his mother receive better treatment in the future. Last year, he passed the Yangzi Evening News Liqun sunshine education program, successfully admitted to the University, and then, with his own efforts, he won the National Encouragement scholarship and various kinds of grants provided and coordinated by the University. At ordinary times, pan Zhengjiang not only relies on scholarships and grants to solve the family living expenses, but also tries to find ways to increase nutrition for his mother. Pan Zhengjiang laughs off his daily expenses and says, "just eat enough.". His father pan cottage told reporters that his son usually buys fish and meat for his mother for three meals. He only fry vegetables for himself or deal with salted vegetables. "Only when his sister comes to Xuzhou every month, he will buy fish and meat, mainly to increase nutrition for his sister. '
In school, she has achieved excellent results, and her mother's condition has been stable. Pan Zhengjiang once felt that her life has ushered in sunshine. However, her mother's relapse suddenly threw over the problem of huge medical expenses. At present, there are only ten thousand yuan left in the family's savings (this money is the compensation left by the brother's car accident, which has been used to pay for medical expenses, and I dare not move at all at ordinary times). My relatives and friends can't borrow any money there. Pan Zhengjiang has no choice but to ask for help from the school. The school has helped him to do water drop financing, but up to the time of publishing, it only raised more than 30000 yuan, which is 100000 yuan away from medical treatment The cost is very different. At present, the school is actively contacting social assistance forces. The reporter also hopes that all sectors of the society can pay attention to the self-supporting college students and help their families through difficulties.