The pace of modern people's life is speeding up, especially at a certain age, but now there is a word called 'tiaodi' social intercourse. What does it mean? Let's have a look!
What's the meaning of social dancing
Integrating into a circle in the quickest way can also quickly weaken the relationship with this circle. Bungee style social networking can quickly establish its own social circle and be in the state of fast food making friends. It seems that you can quickly get intimate with anyone, and at the same time, you can instantly alienate yourself. This kind of social style seems to help us cut off the extra vulnerability.
Dance floor in this kind of friend mode has long penetrated into life, has long been used to pretending intimacy of daily life. Many people don't seem to have much to do with you. Maybe they just sit in the same classroom and work in the same company. But you have to know each other and speak in a familiar atmosphere. Otherwise, it's embarrassing to stare.
But the post-90s, who have suffered a lot from the loss, are really unable to make friends with too many people and do not want to expose their treasure to too many people, because most of them will not stay too long and will not cherish it. Instead of always meeting the disappointment brought by one person after another, it's better not to take it too seriously from the beginning. Fast food style of social interaction has become very important, enjoy the most lonely time or.
What's wrong with the social dancing style
In short, it is to quickly deal with people you don't know around you, but after that, you seldom get in touch with them. It's just that you are familiar with the scene at that time.
The only drawback of the information age is that the social atmosphere between people is becoming more and more shallow. At a specific time and place, some people with common characteristics are added to the list, and then in the future, they brush the circle of friends and watch 'friends' who have met one or two times Express their daily life.
It has opened the life of making friends in the style of bungee jumping. It seems that it is very close to everyone, but it seems that no one knows much about it. It has been able to easily put away its useless vulnerability, thus reducing a lot of ritual but unnecessary sadness.