Single men and women can meet love on average 5 blind dates
Today is' 520 ', zhenai.com released its "survey report on single people in 2019q1" to analyze the key figures of single people's love and marriage, and insight into the latest trend of love and marriage behind the figures. According to the survey, the first blind date of single men and women is less than 23 years old, and nearly half of the 95's have blind date experience; the average blind date is 5 times; the 90's love experience is less than 2 times, and the average empty window period of the 95's is more than 2 years; 2 months is the prime time for pursuing love, and '2,3,5' is the latest marriage rhythm; farewell to 'seven-year itch', and marriage 'two-year itch' is coming; More than 50% of single men and women have less than 30000 deposits, and 20% of "post-90s aspiring youth" have more than 250000 deposits.
Blind date
The first blind date was less than 23 years old
The average blind date 5 times can meet love
According to official data, China's single population has reached 240 million, and the number of young single groups is huge. Blind date has become a social norm. The survey shows that 38% of single men and women are under 23 years old for their first blind date, and 24% of single men and women are 23-25 years old. When the single phenomenon has become a common social problem, blind date has become one of the main ways to get rid of single, not just the choice of older single men and women. In terms of age, 40% of them have already had blind date experience. It can be seen that the new trend of blind date in China: the first batch of blind date began after 1995, and the blind date age showed a trend of younger age.
In the survey of the successful members of zhenai.com, it is found that the average blind date is 5 times to meet love and get rid of singleness. In depth study found that 70% of single men and women have blind date experience, of which 40% of single men and women have blind date three times a year, and 30% of single men and women have blind date five times a year.
love
Two months is the prime time to pursue love
The average window period after 1995 is more than 2 years
Data show that nearly 90% of single people fall in love less than three times, of which 20% of single men and women are 'mother and child single' (love times are zero). According to the data of the post-90s, nearly 70% of them are single, and the post-90s have less than two love experiences, of which two become 'mother child single'. The post-90s' lack of love experience may be one of the factors that make it difficult for contemporary single men and women to get rid of single.
Inexperienced in love, single time is also worrying. According to the survey, more than 60% (62%) of single men and women have an empty window period of more than one year, of which nearly 40% (36%) have an empty window period of more than two years, and more than 50% (95%) have an empty window period of more than two years.
The survey found that 48% of the respondents said they would only pursue the person they like for two months, 12% for three months and 17% for six months. In the process of being pursued, 52% of single people would choose to agree within two months of the other party's pursuit, another 14% would like the other party to pursue for three months, and 18% of single men and women would only agree after six months of the other party's pursuit. Whether it is the pursuit of patience or the expectation of time to be pursued, two months is the golden time to judge whether hand in hand is successful.
According to the survey, more than 40% (43%) of single men said they would spend about 5000 yuan on pursuing their partner; another 38% were willing to spend about 1000 yuan, and 12% said they would spend about 10000 yuan on pursuing their partner. Five adults said that the average monthly love cost was 3000 yuan, followed by 1000 yuan (37%) and 5000 yuan (12%). From the perspective of urban differences, young people in first tier cities generally think that the reasonable cost of love is 5000 yuan, while young people in small towns spend about 1000 yuan. In the process of love and marriage, the investment cost of pursuing is significantly higher than that of love. It can be seen that in the aspect of love and marriage cost investment, the choice of single men and women is more practical.
Mr. Hai, a successful live dating member of zhenai.com, told his story: 'we met on July 16, 2018. I went to the live studio of & lsquo; Xiaomo & quot;. In fact, the first time I saw Xiaomo, I fell in love with her and showed her my heart. As a result, she mercilessly introduced me to other girls. But since then, I have been there for every live broadcast of Xiaomo, and I have been with her. On July 23, many people in the studio were giving a red envelope, and I also gave a red envelope to Xiao mo. she said she didn't want a red envelope, just let me sing for her, so I summoned up the courage to sing a song "confession balloon" to Xiao Mo in the studio. Unexpectedly, Xiao Mo answered my song "courage". At that time, the studio was fried, and I had a feeling of being in love. On July 28, Xiaomo came to Hefei from Guiyang to find me. We really love each other for thousands of miles. On July 30, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate. I want to say to Xiaomo, thank you, let me not be alone. '
marry
30 is the ideal age for marriage
Two years of marriage
In addition to finding that they can be together after pursuing for two months, the research on the promotion of other love relationships found that nearly seven adults agreed to try love before marriage (live together before marriage). More than half of single men and women think that they can live together after three months of love, another 22% think that they can live together after six months, and 20% think that they can live together after one year of love. More than 60% (61.39%) of single men and women think that they can get married after five months of love. In addition, 32% of single men and women think that they can only get married after one year of love, and only 6% think that it is appropriate to get married after more than two years of love.
When the first group of post-90s have entered the age of late marriage. The survey found that nearly 70% of single men and women are in favor of late marriage, believing that marriage after maturity can make marriage more stable. In terms of the best ideal marriage age, the latest ideal late marriage age is 30 years old, followed by 27 years old. It can be seen that the attitude of single men and women towards marriage has become more cautious.
According to the survey, 31% of single men and women said that two years of love will become a period of indifference, 22% said that one year of love will enter a period of indifference, and another 16% believed that the duration of passionate love is only six months. Similarly, in the marriage is also prone to burnout. According to the survey of divorced people, more than 30% of divorced people said that the period of marriage burnout was 2 years, followed by 3 years (23%) and 8 years (20%). It can be seen that the seven-year itch has been upgraded to two years, and marriage needs to be managed more than expected.
In this regard, Zhang Shasha, an emotional expert at zhenai.com, said: after entering the marriage, you should change your role, learn to express love, keep the communication of love, construct a ceremony for two people, create some surprises, and make the ordinary day extraordinary. In this way, you can improve the happiness index of marriage.
Finance
40% female vs. partner
Monthly income required
Appearance, economy and personality are the main factors in choosing a mate. As far as personal economic requirements are concerned, the survey shows that 40% of the single women in the national average demand more than 8000 monthly income for the other half. From the perspective of geographical division, the general requirement for single women in first tier cities is 13000 yuan, that for new first tier cities is 8000 yuan, and that for young people in small towns is about 3000 yuan. It can be seen that talking about money hurts feelings? But feelings have to talk about money.
According to the report, more than 50% of single men and women (53.91%) have less than 30000 deposits, of which 30% have no deposits, 23% have between 10000 and 30000 deposits, and only 25.35% have more than 100000 deposits.
After graduation, I came to Shenzhen. I've always been used to the convenience brought by the Internet. If I can play Didi, I will never take the bus. If I can order takeout, I will never cook by myself. Even if I buy daily necessities, I also choose the one hour door-to-door service in the supermarket. If I have nothing to do, I will go to Taobao at home. I haven't used up the things I hoarded last year. How can I say that all kinds of services that are delivered to my eyes have hollowed me out a little bit. In general, every month's salary means shopping besides paying rent. '