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Five blind dates can get rid of single dog don't worry, true love is on the way

Many people are wondering why I've been on a blind date two or three times and I'm still a single dog. Now the reason comes out, because according to the 520 survey report, the average blind date is five times before I can meet love, so you've only been on a blind date two or three times. What's the hurry? It's early!

According to the survey, the first blind date of single men and women is less than 23 years old, and nearly half of the 'post-95s' have blind date experience; on average, they can meet love five times; the' post-90s' have less than two love experiences on average, and the 'post-95s' have an average empty window period of more than two years; two months is the golden time to pursue love; farewell to the' seven-year itch ', and the' two-year itch 'of marriage is coming; Nearly 50% of the 'post-90s' are' sunshine people ', and 20% of the' post-90s' aspiring youth 'have deposits of more than 250000 yuan.

Number of blind date age: 40% of the '95's' have been blind date

Official figures show that China's single population has reached 2. 400 million, a large number of young single groups, blind date has become a social norm.

According to the big data survey of zhenai.com, 38% of single men and women's first blind date is less than 23 years old, and 24% of single men and women's first blind date is between 23 and 25 years old. It can be seen that when singleness becomes a common social problem, blind date has become one of the main ways to get rid of singleness, not just the choice of older single men and women. In terms of age, 40% of the '95s' have already had blind date experience, and the blind date age tends to be younger.

Number of blind date probability: 40% of single people have blind date 3 times a year

How many times can you get rid of the single on a blind date? When investigating the successful members of zhenai.com, we found that in the process of getting rid of the single successfully, you can meet love and get rid of singleness on an average of 5 blind dates.

It turns out that as long as we take a positive attitude towards the seemingly difficult problem of getting rid of the single, and face the social blind date with an ordinary heart, the probability of success is still very high.

In depth study found that 70% of single men and women have blind date experience, of which 40% of single men and women have blind date three times a year, and 30% of single men and women have blind date five times a year.

Number of love experiences: the post-90s have less than two love experiences

'5 & middot; 20' has become a day for couples to show their love, while single people always say 'when will it be my turn to have a sweet love', but they are often passive in reality. Data show that nearly 90% of single people fall in love less than three times, of which 20% of single men and women are single from mother to child (the number of love is zero).

According to the data of the post-90s, nearly 70% of the single post-90s have been in love less than twice, and two of them are single. The obvious lack of love experience of the post-90s generation may be one of the factors that make it difficult for contemporary single men and women to get rid of the single.

Besides the lack of love experience, the length of single life is also worrying. According to the survey, more than 60% (62%) of single men and women have an empty window period of more than one year, of which nearly 40% (36%) have an empty window period of more than two years, and more than 50% have an empty window period of more than two years.

Data of love time: two months is the prime time for pursuing love

The survey found that 48% of the respondents said they would only pursue the person they like for two months, 12% for three months and 17% for six months. In the process of being pursued, 52% of single people would choose to agree within two months of the other party's pursuit, another 14% would like the other party to pursue for three months, and 18% of single men and women would only agree after six months of the other party's pursuit. It can be seen that two months is the golden time to judge whether hand in hand is successful, whether it is the pursuit of patience or the expectation of being pursued.

Ideal marriage age: 30 years old is the ideal marriage age

When the first group of post-90s entered the age of late marriage. The survey found that nearly 70% of single men and women are in favor of late marriage, believing that marriage after maturity can make marriage more stable. In terms of the best ideal marriage age, the latest ideal late marriage age is 30 years old, followed by 27 years old. It can be seen that the attitude of single men and women towards marriage has become more cautious.

Love and marriage fatigue period: fatigue period advanced to two years

Love is a sweet process, and with the passage of time, after the period of hot love will gradually become a flat period. According to the survey, 31% of single men and women said that two years of love will turn into a period of indifference, 22% said that one year of love will enter a period of indifference, and another 16% believed that the duration of passionate love is only six months.

Similarly, in the marriage is also prone to burnout. According to the survey of divorced people, more than 30% of divorced people said that the period of marriage burnout was two years, followed by three years (23%) and eight years (20%). It can be seen that the seven-year itch has been upgraded to two years, and marriage needs to be managed more than expected.

Zhang Shasha, an emotional expert at zhenai.com, said that theoretically, love does have a certain shelf life, and passion will gradually disappear with the passage of time. It's not wise to look for it again and again. It's more important to know how to run a marriage. After entering the marriage, do a good job in role transformation, learn to express love, keep love communication, construct two people's emotional ceremony, create surprise, make ordinary day extraordinary, so as to improve the happiness index of marriage.

Economic data of mate selection: Women demand 8000 yuan for man's monthly income

Appearance, economy and personality are the most important factors in choosing a mate. As far as personal economic requirements are concerned, the survey shows that 40% of single women in the national average demand more than 8000 yuan for their partner's monthly income. From the perspective of geographical division, the general requirement for single women in first tier cities is 13000 yuan, that for new first tier cities is 8000 yuan, and that for young people in small towns is about 3000 yuan.

Cost data of love and marriage: the average monthly cost of love is 3000 yuan

According to the survey on the cost of pursuing love, more than 40% (43%) of single men said they would spend about 5000 yuan on pursuing their partner, 38% would spend about 1000 yuan, and 12% would spend about 10000 yuan on pursuing their partner.

For the monthly love expenses, five adults said that the average monthly love expenses were 3000 yuan, followed by 1000 yuan (37%) and 5000 yuan (12%). From the perspective of urban differences, young people in first tier cities generally think that the reasonable cost of love is 5000 yuan, while young people in small towns spend about 1000 yuan. In the process of love and marriage, the investment cost of pursuing is significantly higher than that of love. It can be seen that the choice of single men and women is more practical in the aspect of love and marriage cost.

Single deposits of post-90s generation: nearly 5% of them have become 'sunshine people'

What is the economic status of single youth? The survey shows that more than 50% of single men and women (53. 91%) had less than 30000 yuan in savings, of which 30% of single men and women said they had no savings. 23% of single men and women had savings between 10000 yuan and 30000 yuan, only 25%. 35% of them have a deposit of more than 100000 yuan.

In terms of age, the number of single deposits of the post-90s is the song of ice and fire. Nearly 50% of the deposits of the post-90s are zero, and 20% of the deposits of the post-90s exceed 250000 yuan. It can be seen that the single post-90s can be divided into two categories. One category advocates enjoying life and enjoying the present without the habit of saving, while the other category of post-90s aspiring youths strive to make money and have more money savings through their own business and other ways.