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Half a month's divorce for newlyweds

Newly married couples should be happy. But Ms. Wang of Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province, filed for divorce less than half a month after her marriage. Why? It turned out that her husband's strange habits made her unbearable, so she filed for divorce.

Ms. Wang and Mr. Zhang had a good relationship during their love

absolutely unexpected,

Some of Mr. Zhang's "quirks" after marriage

Let Ms. Wang feel very uncomfortable!

'every day before he goes to bed, he makes the bed, walks around the bed ten times, bows to the door three times, and goes to bed again. 'once Ms. Wang woke up in the middle of the night and found her husband walking around the bed, which scared her to cry.

After the diagnosis of the psychiatrist, it turned out that Mr. Zhang suffered from obsessive-compulsive disorder due to childhood reasons.

Quirk: walking around the bed without sleeping in the middle of the night

Ms. Wang and Mr. Zhang have been in love for two years and officially registered for marriage last month. Both families think that the young couple must live a happy life.

Who knows, only half a month later, Ms. Wang suddenly proposed to Mr. Zhang's parents for divorce. This has shaken the families of both sides.

The family asked Ms. Wang why she wanted a divorce. Ms. Wang denied the emotional and economic problems, saying that her husband is a very good person, very careful and good at taking care of people.

In this way, the family members were puzzled. After further inquiry, Ms. Wang had no choice but to tell the family members: 'I can't adapt to his life & lsquo; eccentricity & gt;. '

Ms. Wang's story also frightened her family. It turns out that Mr. Zhang must make the bed before going to bed every day, then walk around the bed ten times, then bow to the door three times, and then go to bed.

'I feel very uncomfortable. Let him change. One day he didn't do it, but he woke up in the middle of the night and saw him walk around the bed, which scared me to cry. 'ms. Wang thinks that her husband is a 'weirdo' and she can't adapt to such a life.

After hearing this, the family felt strange, so they suggested Mr. Zhang to go to the Department of psychology of Wutaishan hospital in Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province.

Cause: obsessive compulsive disorder caused by inferiority complex in childhood

The psychiatrist inquired about the history in detail.

In his early years, Mr. Zhang was often bullied by his classmates because of his small size, and gradually formed a cowardly and timid character. After graduating from University, Mr. Zhang was arranged to work in a company in other places.

Mr. Zhang said: 'I was worried at that time. I was young and didn't get along well with my colleagues. The company allocated single apartment, always worried when sleeping. I have some terrible things in mind, so I dare not turn off the lights at night. Later, he walked around the bed and bowed. He felt more comfortable and steadfast after doing these things. '

Mr. Zhang told the doctor that it had been five or six years since he returned to Yangzhou to work. Even if he slept at home, his behavior did not change. He also felt that there was no meaning in doing this, nor did he believe in anything, but he could not change it.

'that day, my wife told me not to do it, but I didn't do it. As a result, I didn't fall asleep. I got up in the middle of the night and walked around the bed, which scared her. '

The mental and physical examination were carried out by the psychiatrist, and the EEG report was normal. Mr. Zhang was diagnosed with obsessive compulsive disorder.

Zhou Chaoyun, director of the Department of psychology of Wutaishan hospital, said that obsessive-compulsive disorder is a common and chronic persistent mental disorder. The average age of onset is about 22-36 years old, and the lifetime prevalence rate of adults is 2% - 3%.

Obsessive compulsive disorder is the fourth most common mental disorder after depression, alcohol and substance abuse and social phobia. Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) has serious social function damage, which gradually aggravates in the burden of mental illness. OCD patients often have bad personality and family environment.

In Mr. Zhang's childhood upbringing, his parents had too much punishment, rejection and denial, and lacked warmth, understanding, trust and encouragement for his children. His parents would strengthen his awareness of the danger of the surrounding environment.

Mr. Zhang lacks a sense of security and needs to absolutely control the surrounding environment. Over time, he has formed a cautious and indecisive personality.

Treatment: drug therapy combined with psychotherapy

Obsessive compulsive disorder patients will produce obsessive-compulsive thinking, followed by serious anxiety and fear, usually through the implementation of certain behaviors to reduce those unreasonable fear, long-term obsessive-compulsive behavior will be fixed. The longer the course of disease, the more fixed the behavior pattern, and the more difficult it is to change.

Zhou Chaoyun said that at present, there are good treatment methods for obsessive-compulsive disorder, and the effective rate and cure rate have been greatly improved. Drug therapy combined with psychotherapy is widely used in clinic. Because obsessive-compulsive disorder has great damage to patients' personal, family and social functions, patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder need early treatment and do not have to bear psychological pain.