On April 17, after her mother died of cancer, Cheng Xiaoyue wrote for the first time that she had collected her mother's ashes home and recorded her mental journey before and after the funeral. She sighed: "may she stay with us, and be happy with us when we regain our strength. 'so many people are very curious. Who is Cheng Xiaoyue's mother? Let's get to know.
The following is Cheng Xiaoyue's full text:
I just went to collect my mother's ashes. The recent naive is too beautiful. Under the sun, the skin can feel warm, but not warm. Occasionally, the spring breeze blows, and the green leaves sway. The spring of this year, for some reason, seems to be blooming very beautiful. So beautiful spring, if only my mother could see it, she yearned for sunshine and spring.
The funeral home is still very cold. It seems that it has been familiar with running too much in the past two weeks. Without the leadership of the staff, I bought a red cloth and took the ashes. The urn I picked for my mother is unique, grand and luxurious. It's very low-key. At first sight, I think it's suitable and she will like it & hellip; in the past, all these things were just heard and never thought about. I can't imagine what kind of material existence the ashes of the deceased are for their living relatives. On the way here, I felt uneasy. I was afraid to lose control of the moment I saw the urn. Emotions, no matter how much experience and self-control, may be out of control.
They opened the lid and there was a red bag inside. The brain told me that this box contained the only ashes left by my mother in the world, and I might cry with sadness and pain. However, at the moment when I hold the ashes in my hand, there is a calm force caressing my shoulder. The ashes do not mean the ashes are gone. Maybe it's like a treasure box my mother left me. This box has the appearance of a gold and silver jewelry box. It contains the happy past that my mother left to our family for four to share. It's just like a treasure.
After getting on the bus, put her on her legs, the window slightly open, there is wind blowing in. In my heart, I felt uncomfortable and steadfast, so I picked up my mobile phone to write.
In the future, this family will not be without her. It just exists in another way. We should lock her memory in a precious box like a treasure, keep her beauty in our heart and move on.
When I got home, I continued to record this feeling in my room. Through the door, I heard my father playing the video I edited for my mother's memorial meeting on my mobile phone. This video outlines the process of her birth, growth, acquaintance with her father, marriage, raising the family and finally fighting cancer. The video is very short. Dad has watched it countless times, and I noticed it many times. After watching it, he always sighs loudly. In fact, I heard it all.
Dad, although my brother and I are facing the same great change, in fact, everyone's grief is quite different, and only I can experience and cure this painful experience.
Today, I bravely and calmly took my mother home. I hope she will stay with us and enjoy with us when we regain our strength.
Personal data of Cheng Xiaoyue's mother Guo Jinghong
Guo Jinghong was born in a famous family. It is said that she married at the age of 17 and moved to Hong Kong with her husband.
Guo Jinghong, who has been closely related to France since she was a child, graduated from the University and majored in French. Naturally, her work is closely related to France. A bold career change ten years ago made Guo Jinghong enter the threshold of Dior's fashion empire, where she kept learning and reaping. All the way to the present, she showed the Chinese people the French magnificence and elegance from Dior.
Guo Jinghong is usually busy at work, how to balance work and family? Balance is the achievement of the career, but also keep the family.
No matter how busy I am, even though I can't be around my family, I always keep in touch with my husband and children. I pay more attention to and am good at expressing myself in words. Maybe just a few words are enough to make them feel my concern and consideration.
Language communication can shorten the distance between heart and heart, no matter how far the space is. In addition, a woman must be able to manage her family and finance, so that her family can feel comfortable home environment and create a better life with the help of her mother. No matter how much time and space your busy work deprives you of, their heart must be very close to you.
Guo Jinghong in her work is a firm, intelligent and resolute heart wrapped by her delicate makeup and elegant clothes. In the face of her family, she is a gentle, considerate and kind wife and mother.
Both career and family occupy the same position in Guo Jinghong's mind. They all need '100% devotion'.
In her opinion, women's success lies in understanding the change of roles. "Whether they are at work or at home, they are all in the workplace, but the light is different.".
Although this may not be approved by feminists, it is the most inclusive and effective way to balance. "Women are like water, they are diverse and changeable, so we should release our unique beauty and advantages.".
In "let's fall in love 3", Guo Jinghong also shows her face. From Guo Jinghong's performance in the program, we can see that Cheng Xiaoyue's mother is also a successful person, and she doesn't feel any discomfort in the face of the camera.