According to statistics, the national marriage rate in 2018 was only 7.2 & permil;, the lowest since 2013. Why are more and more people getting married late or not? For many young people nowadays, they are becoming a marriage phobic group, which is worrying.
Some people say that being single is more free, others say that being single is better to find a job. Some experts believe that people in economically developed areas are relatively more independent. Many people think that marriage is quite a kind of bondage, and family is more responsibility, which brings less and less benefits to individuals, and the marriage rate will decline.
With the development of social economy and the progress of the times, late marriage has become a trend, especially in the post-90s generation.
Of course, there are also unmarried people. In recent years, the number of unmarried people is also increasing.
It is normal for people in modern society, especially the post-90s, to marry late. Why did it change like this?
Xiaobian thinks that late marriage has a lot to do with the big era.
There are many reasons for late marriage! Because of the popularization of education, people's level of education is getting higher and higher. Generally speaking, after finishing college, they will be 23 or so. After finding a job, they will settle down to nearly 30. Compared with previous people, they must be older at marriage age!
Most of the post-90s have received higher education, and they can support themselves after work. The better ones will be less rich, especially for girls, who earn no less than boys, so they will be more picky. Most girls may have such a kind of psychology that they live a leisurely and comfortable life. If they can't find the ideal person, why do they find someone to lower their life level?
This is not only the pursuit of life, but also the pursuit of love and life, as well as respect for oneself. After all, today's women are different from their parents' generation. They will look at themselves more rationally and respect their own needs. They will not live with complacency and patience like traditional women.
There are many reasons for late marriage, one of which is the economic reason.
First of all, the new generation of young people have a lot of work pressure, such as the pressure from the workplace, the choice of career direction and salary, etc.; the pressure from the society, the house price is soaring all the way, and even after working for several years, they are still "looking at the house and sighing"; therefore, the post-90s generally have the idea of "fighting when they are young".
There's a saying on the Internet that 'I don't have any hope for love anymore. I just want to get rich now. It's more important to get rid of poverty than to get rid of singleness'. Nowadays, money plays an important role in all aspects of life. Without money, there's no capital for love, let alone a future and a marriage.
Second, today's generation, both men and women, are basically self-sufficient. It's not like in ancient times, where men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. Nowadays, both men and women have the ability to have both inside and outside. They no longer need to rely on their partners to provide a certain part.
There is also a saying on the Internet, which is aimed at women, "I have bread, you just give me love.". But the fact is, love is too difficult, ten have nine sad, meet the right is really not easy. Of course, there is no lack of love, but to share the bread.
Thirdly, contemporary youth and post-90s pay more attention to spiritual communication. In the era of gradually breaking away from parents' orders and the words of media, late marriage seems to be an inevitable trend. People also pay more attention to the agreement and resonance of the three concepts. After all, the person you are married to is your partner for most of your life.
There are many reasons for late marriage or not. With the rapid economic development, people's living standards are improving day by day, and their pursuit is higher. However, sometimes, late marriage or not, also varies from person to person.