There are many hot words on the Internet. It seems that you can't understand people's words if you don't surf the Internet every other day. The most terrible thing is that some words don't know what they stand for according to their literal meaning, such as' suicide and single '. Do you know what it means? If you don't know, let's have a look with Xiaobian.
What does "suicidal single" mean
As an Internet language, this word describes those who have been single and do not take the initiative to expand the scope of social contact to meet new friends, but every day fantasy can have love, this kind of heart but not heart behavior.
The origin of "suicidal single"
The word was first coined on December 17, 2018, and was first defined and explained by microblog @ language command center. The number of comments on this blog post was more than ten thousand, which made it popular on the Internet and became a common buzzword on the Internet.
Five characteristics of being single, see if you've been shot.
I would rather be single to death than expand my social circle.
Too afraid to marry the wrong person, marry the wrong person, always feel that can meet better.
Do not know how to love, lost the ability to love.
Enjoy single fat house life, lazy to run in character.
The circle is too small, no new opposite sex, also lazy to cultivate slowly, always want to love at first sight.
"Suicidal singleness"
Suicidal single does not exist, in case of expanding the social circle and still single, it is an insult to my personality
I know I'm suicidal single, but what can I do? It's nice to be alone, isn't it?
How unexplained is the post-90s' new word 'suicidal singleness'?
In the past, when we talked about a person's age, neither falling in love nor going on a blind date, at most we said that he was stupid. Now, new words have come out, suicidal single. The sense of picture is too strong, loneliness and Ah Q spirit burst out at the same time. Many people can't help murmuring that they are not in a hurry. Is it so difficult to find someone? As for how unexplained this situation is, please look down.
1. We don't meet when we rent together.
There is an Internet company in my hometown, which is a new high-tech industry in the county. There are a lot of science men in the company, and a lot of single women who are dragged back from the big city by their parents, looking for a good young local.
In the Internet industry, there is a large flow of people. Norda is a county seat. It's not easy to find some young men and women who are young, talented and can't say different things and then go to big cities. The company's leaders bite their teeth and make a bad move. If they are happy to marry in the company, they won't go.
Just do what you say. The company found a way to find a dormitory nearby. Men and women rent it to the company's young employees. It doesn't matter if they don't rent it. The housing subsidy is gone. We are not far away from home. Due to the company's kindness, we can't live in vain, and we can stay away from our parents' nagging. The occupancy rate is quite high. But after a long time, there is no spark that should be sparked. These programmers really become 'programming apes'. After work, they close the door and see no one.
Later, the company's leaders figured out that the reason why these guys came back from big cities to small counties was mostly to seek stability or only to follow their parents' orders. Anyway, if one person has enough to eat and the whole family is not hungry, let's play first.
2. Blind dates don't show up.
It is said that there are several post-90s in the company, and their families are in a hurry to arrange blind date crazily. Their answer is very simple: "don't you say that I don't care if I go to university? Don't you say that I don't care if I come back to work? How can I still care?"
Even more, the Internet freelancers who only know how to make money and progress, the blind date arranged by their parents, went to the bottom of the community to wait to meet and exchange contact information. People were so surprised that they didn't even get off the building, which made their parents with high blood pressure so angry that their blood pressure soared. Let's formally invite someone to come home. There's nothing prepared at home. If they don't go, it's too unreasonable.
3. The key is that the income structure has changed.
Speaking of the life of this generation of post-90s, many elders don't understand how they can support themselves by playing with computers at home. Are you cheating again?
Children try every means to explain, saliva all said dry, they Leng is don't understand: what, others browse can make money, you this is not MLM, please, good looking for a nine to five job, at least that safe.
The social division of labor is becoming more and more meticulous. Many post-90s have become experts in one aspect: PS drawing revision, renderings, acting exercises and so on. Relying on this kind of "activity" that their parents can't see and understand, they support themselves. Even staying at home, the income is not bad, the circle is getting smaller and smaller, and there are special personnel to contact the business. My parents are really afraid.
4. There is no solution.
In fact, the post-90s who are suicidal and single still have something in common: they feel that they earn less, they are afraid that they can't give a good foundation to their future families, they are not good at socializing or fear of socializing, they are anxious, they don't have much confidence in themselves, they like drama games, they can entertain themselves, and they can live a good life with electronic products;
The understanding of the parents is that on the one hand, they need themselves more. They need a partner from their heart and then go out. Don't just sit down and talk about general principles. They only know a lot more than their parents, but if they really practice them, they are afraid that they will be flawed.
Therefore, to break the suicidal singleness, we have to start from ourselves. We can have a look at the drama and have a fantasy, but there is still a gap between fantasy and reality. People beside you can only be in a hurry. Do you still remember what your parents taught you when you were reading: don't fall in love, or I'll break your legs and study hard. There is a beauty in the book. Where's Yan Ruyu? Sorry, Dad, I don't seem to fall in love!