As the saying goes, the children of the poor are the masters. Nowadays, the living standard of the society has been running towards the well-off society of the whole people, but the students who demand the development of morality, intelligence, body and beauty have become unable to take care of themselves. Looking at it, the students are good at writing and martial arts. They are proficient in all kinds of music, chess, calligraphy and painting. Why do they face the situation that they don't know garlic, don't screw the bottle cap with their hands, and can't wash dirty clothes by themselves when facing the kitchen and housework?
Parents have different opinions on students' high scores and low abilities. According to Ms. Gao, children's studies are tense and washing takes up time. Parents can only help them. Ms. Xie thinks that parents can't pamper their children. If they want to learn how to grow up, they have to let their children touch these things themselves. Mr. Lei also has a deep feeling. He is more inclined to cultivate children's independence, but we do all the housework, and we don't pay attention to it at ordinary times. According to the attitude of parents, we can see that most parents are not willing to pamper their children and hope that they can be self reliant. However, in the aspect of housework, there are not too many requirements for children, which is also a big reason why students can't take care of themselves.
Experts suggest paying attention to the comprehensive quality of students. Boarding is also a way to train children. Let students learn from each other and make progress together, but also can promote friendship. Only by refusing to create a nerd who can only "outgrow others" and allowing students to develop in a diversified way can comprehensive quality be improved. Zuo Zhenpeng, an expert, expressed his opinion that if children have the psychology of relying on their parents for everything except study, there will be a phenomenon that students can't wash clothes at present. Once they enter the University, it will be difficult for them to adapt to the atmosphere of independent life. School education should strengthen students' self-cultivation, and should not weaken the importance of labor class year by year. At the same time, labor education can not only reverse the bad habit of being lazy, but also promote the unremitting spirit of hard work.
Family education is the best tutor for students. 'dirty clothes can't be washed by themselves' has become a miniature of students' poor self-care ability. First of all, parents should train their children to do small things as much as they can and cultivate their children's sense of independence. High marks and low abilities are not the same thing. They help their parents do housework actively. Only a few children can cook. They pay attention to the cultivation of their children's behavior habits, hands-on ability, independent living ability and emotional intelligence, and give them enough encouragement and confidence.
Many students can only realize their parents' difficulties when they grow up. The more they suffer, the more homesick they are. The more they suffer, the wider their character is. If they want to make their children brave and independent, it's better to let them work hard when they are young. Even if they are injured, you are still around them. Don't wait for their children to grow up to feel regretful!