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Precautions and taboos for going to girlfriend's home during Spring Festival

Friends in love, have you ever thought about what kind of gifts you will give to your parents during the new year? Especially boys, do you know what to take when they return to their girlfriend's home? What are the precautions for going to their girlfriend's home during the new year? Don't be nervous when you go for the first time. Be calm, so as to leave a good impression on your future father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Visit your girlfriend's house. You can't hold her hand when you come near her house, because her neighbors will judge each other. After entering the house, don't be too casual and intimate with her. Her family is watching your every move, so as not to leave a bad impression. Don't look at your watch from time to time, or her family will think you don't want to stay at her house.

When you leave, don't show a relaxed attitude as soon as you step out of the door, because her family is still watching you. It should also be noted that the day before the official visit to his girlfriend's home, he must take a bath and change clothes. He must be clean and tidy. He must not be sloppy. He does not respect each other and leaves a bad first impression. The most important thing is that the whole body exudes a clean feeling, such as dandruff on the shoulder is the most disgusting.

Men usually win by appearance, because their parents' eyes are easy to look at the details: clean and tidy hair, beard, clean shirt collar and cuffs, nail repair neat and clean, trousers straight, clean socks shoes. To enter a lover's house for the first time is like taking an exam. You should not only pay attention to clothes and appearance, but also make necessary preparations for answering and talking.

This can be carried out from four aspects: first, to stabilize the mood, to be confident, sincere and sincere, to be generous, to be sure to be popular; hypocrisy, affectation, wriggling, to be rejected. With self-confidence, the tension will gradually calm down. Second, understand the situation. Ask the lover about their family members, their parents' occupation, culture, interest, experience and personality. The more detailed you know, the better.

Only when you are familiar with the situation can you be prepared first, and when you talk, you can also have a purpose. The third is the preliminary content. Think about what the other person will ask you. In this situation, the future father-in-law and mother-in-law will often ask your family, work, hobbies, etc., and make preparations for yourself. Fourth, it is necessary to properly prepare gifts, visit each other's home for the first time, and send some gifts to the parents of the other party. This not only shows your respect for the elders, but also shows your sincerity. Generally speaking, the parents of the other party will accept the gifts, but it should be noted that the gifts should not be too expensive, or the starting point is too high, I'm afraid you can't continue.

She must be happy to buy her mother-in-law a better set of cosmetics. You can also buy some seafood for the Chinese New Year. Half of the pig leg ham, lamb leg, etc. are more practical. Of course, ask your girlfriend in advance what you eat and what you don't want to eat. Buy some rare fruits, milk, peanut oil and so on. As a girl who has been married for two years, I think these parents are the happiest. When it comes to new year's day, I plan to celebrate it. In addition, some places give shoes to the old people for new year's day, while others don't, please pay attention!

When we meet for the first time, we are bound. After greeting, we often get cold. It's time to bring up the topic. One way is to use local materials. Carefully observe the walls, windowsills, tables, celebrity calligraphy and paintings on the wall, chrysanthemums on the windowsill, and all kinds of small decorations on the table, all of which can be borrowed. Because they often reflect the host's interests and hobbies, and can make the host say many pleasant words. Another way is to stay away from strangers. To introduce a topic, you need to avoid something strange to the other party. You can talk about the news and the weather from what the other party is most familiar with.

When the parents of the other side ask questions, they should be able to explain the story, respectful, a little lower and softer. Make it clear one sentence at a time. Be polite when you talk. When elders praise young people, they always like to say: 'this child is very sensible!' in general, the standard by which elders measure young people's quality depends on whether they are 'sensible', that is, whether they are able to understand reason, in addition to their natural appearance and ability. When talking with the parents of the other party, you must pay attention to politeness, be humble and respectful, and be considerate.