It's time to go home again. I believe that many single men and women accept dating under the arrangement of their parents. Is it necessary for those inexperienced partners to make a good strategy in advance? So what's not embarrassing when they meet and talk for the first time?
Notes on going home for blind date on New Year's Day
By the end of the year, many single men and women have accepted the instructions of their parents to meet each other. To meet each other means to achieve marriage. Marriage is a lifelong thing, so we must pay attention to some things, so what should we pay attention to in the process of meeting each other? Let's take a look at the precautions of going home to meet each other in the new year.
1. The first impression of a blind date is very important. When the other party sees you, the first sight is your face value and clothes. The face value is given by your parents, so it can't be changed. Of course, the clothes must be decent, so the dress should be decent.
2. Dating is not only to meet each other, but also to win the hearts of parents and friends. Many relatives and friends will visit us when we meet. Therefore, we should smile when we meet each other, call each other appropriately, and speak actively instead of laughing. This will show that you can't speak and have no manners.
3. Next, it's time to enter the conversation time. It's hard to avoid some panic in front of people and strangers. Don't talk too much, so let nature go and finish a pleasant conversation.
4. Don't cheat each other. Marriage is a lifetime thing, so be frank with each other. There is not much relationship for others, but for yourself, it is the biggest victim, which may lead your marriage to the grave of love.
5. When the protagonists and heroines chat, they should be gentle and care for each other, because when the blind date can talk with the blind date, it can be established as a love relationship. At this time, they can play their emotional intelligence as much as possible to please each other.
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The first impression is the 'first impression' that someone's appearance leaves on a stranger's mind. According to research, this impression is surprisingly consistent with himself. That is to say, if a girl's first impression is that she is polite, she is usually a 'good girl' herself; if you think he is not slim when you meet him, he is usually a 'exaggerating' person.
Therefore, the first impression is very important, especially on the occasion of blind date. Two people who have never met each other sit at the same table for dinner and chat. The appearance is the first 'mystery' that can be given by each other. Usually girls are more concerned about this. Do you know what he will observe you from?
What should we pay attention to when we go home for blind date
smile
Does your smile look sincere and sweet? Or just and stiff? In many beauty contests, 'what features (parts) do you think are most attractive?' is a permanent question. The classic and safest answer is' your sweet smile '. It's true that a sincere smile can warm people's hearts. It's also called "dimples are like flowers" and "reach out and don't laugh at people". Laughter is the best gift for people who meet for the first time.
Hair
Men have no idea whether they have split hair or spend hundreds of newly made popular bob heads. What they care about is the look of your hair: 1. Softness; 2. Attractive taste. Therefore, you don't need to go to the salon to make any shape. You just need to choose a shampoo with pleasant fragrance to wash your hair frequently and bake some baked oil occasionally to keep the hair smooth and bright.
Makeup
If you go to a blind date with a thick foundation, a strong eye shadow and a bright blush, it will make the other person afraid: even the real face is not to show people, vague, is it what they want to hide or keep distance?
chest
Although men have a natural preference for women's breasts, especially large breasts, they are not happy to see her 'show off' in the face of people who may become their other half in the future. However, he will naturally take a good look at it and evaluate it, so ladies, the standard between concealment and seeming disclosure needs to be taken seriously.
skin
The whole person also looks healthy when the skin looks good. Girls with fair and smooth skin have natural advantages in this respect, which is very gratifying. But even if there are some flaws on the face, such as spots, fine scars and so on, you don't need to worry too much. You can use some makeup technology to slightly cover up. The key is that the whole person looks clean and natural, and the temperament wins.
Bag
The bulky Canvas Backpack is not the "best" of this occasion, especially when you open it inadvertently, it is filled with invoices, shopping receipts, and plastic bags for things. Well, although it is very practical, the "home" side is really not to be seen at the first meeting. At this time, a simple and fresh hand bag or shoulder bag is the safest choice. Remember to clean it up and leave the basic purse, mobile phone, cosmetic bag and tissue bag. Cleanliness and tidiness are the characteristics of a good girl, aren't they?
Notes for girls' dating
1. What should we pay attention to when we first meet? Avoid boasting about ourselves
When you meet for the first time, if you only give a general idea of your personal situation, you can leave a sense of mystery to the other party and look forward to meeting you next time. On the contrary, if you are too bossy, you will make the other party think that you are an emotional dependent person and not willing to have in-depth contact with you.
2. Give the other party a say
In life, two people with opposite personalities can become lovers, girlfriends, confidants of the red or confidants of the blue. But for the first meeting, the two sides are not familiar with each other. Everything starts from scratch, and try to leave time for each other to talk. It will make people feel that you are considerate and equal.
3. Don't stare at each other
The triangle formed by taking the other side's eyebrow center as the top angle and the two cheekbones as the bottom angle is called 'focus area' by psychologists. When talking with each other, please focus on this "triangle area" so that the other party can have a feeling of being concerned, so as to have a good impression on you. On the contrary, if you stare at each other's eyes, it will make them hostile at the beginning.
What should I pay attention to when I first meet you
4. Find topics quickly
If you can't find a common topic with the other party, you can appropriately repeat the other party's views to show that you are in the same position with him or her. In this way, the other party will have a sense of self satisfaction, which will redouble your favor.
5. Value each other's expertise
Don't go on and on about your strengths. It's depressing. You can ask more questions about each other's hobbies and expertise, which is easy to generate new topics and arouse each other's desire for communication.
6. Avoid heavy topics
Don't just ask the questions, let alone the questions of lovelorn, breakup and unemployment. Even if you are really curious, please restrain yourself and ask after both sides are familiar with each other.
7. Smile as much as you can
Research has found that 70% of Asian men say they like girls who smile often and have tiger teeth, while women prefer to see the sunny side of men.
8. Believe in the first feeling
When the first feeling tells you that the person in front of you is worth going on with, you should know what you should do next.
How to prepare for a blind date
Attention for girls' blind date
1. Material female
Today's girls are very realistic. Of course, it's OK to know each other's economic situation when dating for their own happiness. However, when you are dating, you can directly ask the man's material conditions, such as' do you have a house ',' do you have a house loan ',' how much is your monthly income ',' have a car but not a car ', family conditions and economic conditions and other practical problems, which are easy to cause boys Many men hate girls who talk about material conditions at the first meeting. They start to ask if they have a house or a car before asking whether they are satisfied with her. Directly let the man fall to the bottom of her first impression.
2. Miss Zhuang
There are often two extreme trends in the "various kinds of Zhuang" Miss: the clear soup with few faces dressed as Lori, or the "thick ink with heavy color" dressed as Lady Gaga. Another synonym of "pretending to be pure" is called "affectation". In the whole process of dating, there is a voice that she can wring the water. The man asks what to eat? He wants Japanese food and Western steak. If he doesn't eat this or that after serving, the export must be "mom says no, no, no", which makes it hard for a table to eat.
But Lady Gaga's flow, mostly is portrays the thick ink heavy color, plays the sexy too, completely dresses up the father and mother not to know, one face thick makeup kills all the hormones of the man. In fact, women with brain defects always feel that there is no market for other categories of women except pure and sexy. In all the male skills, there is always an art - "Zhuang". Pretending to be happy, I think I really become the leading role in aunt Qiongyao's works; I have to make up so fast that I can catch up with Ziyi to compete in ice and kill countless times. Unfortunately, she underestimated not only men's IQ, but also men's basic aesthetic ability.
3. Anencephalic passive female
This kind of woman is either pure illiteracy or bookworm. Not to mention state affairs, foreign exchange and other economic issues, she was also at a loss as to where the big news happened in the city. Man and he can hardly find a common topic. And her blind date group is always spectacular, close to her parents, far to my aunt's uncle's second cousin, the whole battle, so that the men tremble even more do not know what common topic to find with her.
How can we succeed in the new year
To know that ignorant women are always not very pleasant, marriage without a common topic will make men feel insipid and tasteless. Too much indecision and bringing a large number of relatives and friends to the battle will deepen the man's idea that she is a wood led by others. If relatives and friends keep questioning men with high attitude, don't think about it. Men are bound to run away.
It's the above points that should be paid attention to when you go home for blind date in the new year. Everyone must remember that no matter whether you are male or female, please take your seat according to your orders and remember these points so as not to leave a bad impression during blind date. I wish you all a successful new year blind date!