The Spring Festival of 2019 is coming, which means that we will meet all kinds of relatives who will not meet for a long time. Some relatives will not see each other for a long time. They will get together and make a lot of noise. Everyone will be happy. Some of them are full of things. It's better to see one behind the other. Netizens are also talented. One of the obstacles is' apparent relatives'
What do you mean by apparent relatives
What does surface relatives mean? Make complaints about relatives who only do superficial work. Some relatives do well on the surface, but in fact they don't have any help in their daily life. What they say is very nice, but when they really need help, they disappear. This is what people call superficial relatives.
There's a kind of relative who looks like a set on the surface and a set on the back. There's a kind of relative who carries you on his mouth, but speaks ill of you behind, leaving you speechless.
What is a relative
Relative: the term relative is usually used to refer to a relative who is married to his or her family. For example: wife / husband's relatives; mother / father's relatives; daughter / son's relatives.
The first relatives refer to "internal relatives and external relatives", mainly referring to the appellation of the relatives of the mother and the wife. The term "relative" generally refers to a relative who is estranged from his family.
How to deal with the relationship between relatives
In fact, everyone's life is not easy, and everyone needs to work hard. In addition to the parents' obligation to support their minor children and their children's obligation to support their elderly parents, other relatives only need to help each other.
In a word, we encourage us to attach importance to family relationship, encourage mutual help among relatives, and encourage people to get along well with each other. However, this is not an excuse for some people not to try their best to rely on relatives. When they find that they can't count on relatives, they will judge them by their apparent relatives. Family love has different status and significance for everyone. It has no standard of measurement or right or wrong. It only depends on how your heart views it. You are a family oriented and self-motivated person, and your family is always around you.