I'm sure that all of you have met this kind of person in your life, that is, you like to make some boring arguments with others, but you can't say him. And after listening, you will have an impulse to kill him. So how to deal with the fine bars gracefully? What's the meaning of the hottest new Internet word 'gangjing' in 2018? Let's take a look at it.
To put it simply: unacquainted, annoying. I don't know the etiquette.
For example, when you say that the pace of life in the first tier cities is too fast and you escape from beishangguang, he will say that you have no ambition or ideal.
But when you say that your family's income is too low, and you want to go to Beijing for a walk, he will say that you are so able to live in Beijing without asking for food or seeing your ability.
Minutes to crack your confidence. The second before is full of confidence. In the second after that, the desire to kill suddenly exploded.
So for this kind of people, what should we do in life?
In fact, there are two kinds of bar essence:
The first one is extremely dissatisfied with society. He vented his dissatisfaction with the society through the way of discouraging.
For this kind of bar elite. I advise you to stay away from him, because you can't really tell him. And it's easy to bring yourself into the ditch. So it's better to stay away.
The second is "brush presence". A typical example of this kind of "bar essence" is Chinese fir. Many idol dramas often show the heroine's anger against the hero. Then the heroine has a line: "you have successfully attracted my attention!"! In fact, the heroine of "Gang elite" has attracted the attention of the hero in the way of "raising the bar", and then gradually realized the counter attack. This kind of "bar elite" is smart people, they want to win the attention of others by "raising the bar". This kind of people often want to be outstanding but have no chance. They can only rely on 'flattery' to let others notice themselves. The second kind of brush existence is relatively easy to deal with, which requires careful observation, identification of his purpose, analysis of whether his purpose is consistent with his own, and then targeted treatment.
In fact, a good social contact with people does not kill people in a single sentence, but makes the conversation satisfactory and comfortable for both parties. Most of the communication between people is emotion, and the content of the conversation only accounts for a small part.
Well, the editor has finished. If you have any better way to face the essence of life. You can comment in the comment area below. See who has the best idea.