According to the report, "other leukemia patients are worried about money in the treatment stage, but now we are in the first step of entering the hospital for treatment, and we start to have differences. There is an angry incident. Dad refuses to treat his son's leukemia. What's the matter? See the details behind refusing to treat leukemia for your son!
On the morning of November 15, Zhang Ya, 29, a young mother, told Ziniu news reporter of Yangzi Evening News about her son's misfortune and was very dissatisfied with her husband Wang Bao (pseudonym). Since learning that her son has acute lymphocytic leukemia, the couple's attitude towards the treatment of her son is totally opposite: Zhang Ya, including her parents, wholeheartedly demands that Qiangqiang go to the hospital for regular treatment, while Wang Bao firmly opposes and insists on giving up the treatment. As for why we should give up the treatment for our son, Wang Bao said: 'it's a bottomless hole, and it can't be cured. '
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Zhang Ya, 29, said she didn't want to let outsiders know about her 8-year-old son's strong and strong treatment. After all, the domestic scandal can't be publicized. It's because she and her husband Wang Bao were in the hospital, arguing about whether the child would receive regular treatment in the hospital. A patient who watched the whole process later posted the incident on the Internet, and more people outside just learned about it. Now, for his son, Zhang Ya can't care about the 'scandal of the family', which is an embarrassing situation for a wife and a mother.
Zhang Ya and his son Qiangqiang
In 2010, it was introduced that Zhang Ya married Wang Bao from the same village, and soon, the lovely Qiangqiang was born. In September this year, the family found that the strong face of the first grade primary school was yellow, the appetite was poor, and occasionally they would cry for leg pain, so they went to the first people's Hospital of Huai'an City for treatment. On October 2, he began to be hospitalized for examination. On October 7, unfortunately, Qiangqiang was diagnosed as acute lymphocytic leukemia.
The husband forced the child to leave the hospital. The wife cried and refused to sign
Zhang Ya told Ziniu news that after the results came out, Wang Bao, the father of the child, thought it was an incurable disease, so he gave up the idea of treatment. But Zhang Ya and his mother's family, who wanted to treat their children, were angry with Wang Bao. For this reason, they had a dispute in the hospital and alerted the police.
In the face of police mediation and hospital explanation of the condition, Wang Bao and his parents still insist on giving up treatment. There is only one baby in the family. Why does Wang Bao, as a father, give up treatment for his son? Incomprehensible to outsiders, and angry.
Yuan Yufang, chief pediatrician of Huai'an No.1 People's Hospital, told Ziniu news that although the strong mother wanted to work hard to treat, her father thought that leukemia was extremely terrible and could not achieve 100% of the treatment effect. If she failed, she would lose both money and money. So after Qiangqiang was hospitalized for two weeks, the treatment was terminated.
Strong father signs to give up treatment
On October 19, he was discharged from the hospital because he could not accept the treatment plan of the hospital and the hospital bed was tense. "When the doctor informed us to leave the hospital, I cried. I knew that once Wang Bao had made a decision, it would be difficult to change it." Zhang Ya said that eventually she didn't sign the discharge notice, while her husband Wang Bao signed "refuse treatment" and went home with Qiangqiang, which broke her heart.
The child said that his legs hurt and he missed his school partner very much
In the interview, Ziniu news reporter of Yangtze Evening News learned that both Zhang Ya's family and her husband's family are not rich in the local economic situation, but they still have a good time. At the beginning of treatment, the contradiction of economic pressure has not been highlighted. As a biological father, how could he think of giving up treatment for his son? With questions, the reporter came to Huaiyin District of Huai'an City wharf Town Wharf Village Committee for understanding.
"Two or three times have the two sides been called to the village committee for mediation". According to Yao Xuecheng, the village accountant, Wang Bao is introverted and withdrawn. He can't say a few words in person. In local words, he is "one muscle". Although the mediation has been repeated many times, Wang Bao and his parents still insist on giving up treatment.
Health care products for children at home after their father gave up treatment
Under the leadership of village cadres, Ziniu news reporter came to Wang Bao's home. When he was sleeping, he said he had a headache when he learned what the reporter wanted. Then he began to walk around the yard. Repeat a sentence repeatedly in his mouth: 'it's a bottomless hole, which can't be cured, and it can't be cured. Just finish it at home. '
When the Ziniu news reporter asked about the current situation of the child, he said that he would eat some health care products blindly, anyway, he would not be sent to the hospital for treatment, because that is a doctor's deception, and in the future, he would certainly be out of money, now he still put the child at home, step by step. During the interview, Qiangqiang and his grandmother went home, facing strangers, Qiangqiang seemed a little afraid. He told reporters in a low voice that he had a pain in his leg and wanted to be a school buddy. Hearing this, Zhang Ya, the mother standing by, was a little emotional. She told reporters that just two days ago, Qiang Qiang had to pack up her schoolbag, go to school and do her homework.
Strength before illness
In the interview, both neighbors and village cadres who participated in the mediation for many times condemned Wang Bao and his family for abandoning the practice of treating strong people. According to Yao Xuecheng, the village accountant, Zhang Ya and his mother's family are actively trying to find a way to cure Qianqiang. Qianqiang's uncle even put forward a half price plan for the family, but Wang Bao, who has one muscle, still insists on giving up treatment, which shows that he is ignorant and does not know science.
Strong in the hospital bed
Village Cadres: if the strong go to treatment, the villages and towns will try their best to help
The town has put the strong into the plight of children, this year's medical insurance costs have not let him pay. According to Yao Xuecheng, they also told Wang Bao that if it's because of money, Wang Bao and his family talents give up the treatment of the strong, then the town and village can help him solve the problem, and the medical insurance can be reported. In fact, they don't need to spend much money, but he still insisted on his own idea - "don't make money at last" and insisted on giving up the treatment.
In Wang Bao's family, in the face of Wang Bao's attitude, Chen Yongqiang, a village cadre, couldn't bear to look down on it. He angrily scolded Wang Bao: 'in the future, if you delay your children, you will be the culprit, and you will be the murderer. "But Wang Bao remained unmoved, saying 'he won't jump into the pit' and turned to enter the room. Chen Yongqiang told Ziniu news reporter that in the process of mediation and communication, he also told Wang Bao that he could not give up as long as there was a glimmer of hope and told them the cases of leukemia cured, but the work could not be done all the time. He thought that Wang Bao and his family's practices were cruel, unreasonable and intolerable, but the village had no right to force him to send him to the hospital for treatment, such as Guowangbao changes his attitude, and the village and town will do everything possible to help them and the strong.
The doctor said: the cure rate of strong disease is about 80%
Yuan Yufang, chief pediatrician of the first people's Hospital of Huai'an City, is the treatment director of Qiangqiang. According to her introduction, she was very impressed by Qiangqiang. Qiangqiang cooperated with the treatment very well after being diagnosed with acute lymphocytic leukemia. It's a pity that parents can't agree on the treatment of their children. The mother wants to work hard for treatment, while the father of the child thinks that leukemia is extremely terrible, unable to achieve 100% of the treatment effect. Once it fails, he will lose both money and money. Finally, the father of the child chooses to give up treatment.
According to Yuan Yufang, after Qiangqiang was admitted to the hospital, the Department of Pediatrics of Huai'an No.1 Hospital carried out a comprehensive physical examination. In the clinical risk classification assessment of the disease, Qiangqiang has no high-risk factors and is very suitable for chemotherapy, with a cure rate of about 80%, and can live like a normal person. In fact, leukemia has not been incurable for a long time, but the strong father, grandparents and grandfather's brothers are adamant that children with leukemia will surely die, and the whole family is against treatment.
Law expert: the child has the right to treatment, and the mother can sue for it
Liu Huiming, chief lawyer of Jiangsu Zhongshan Mingjing law firm and law professor of Hehai University, believes that this problem is not unanswered. A strong mother can take up legal weapons to protect his son's rights and give him hope for life.
According to the marriage law, the general principles of civil law and other laws, parents have the obligation to support their children. The obligation of this support is not only to let their children eat and wear warm clothes, but also to have the right to receive treatment when they are ill. If the child is ill, the parents must treat him! The law also stipulates that parents have equal custody of their children. The father is not willing to treat the child, is not willing to pay, and violates the legal obligations.
Professor Liu suggested that she could send Qiangqiang to the hospital first, resume treatment as soon as possible, and further consult with the father of the child. If the father of the child is still unwilling to allow the child to be treated, the mother of the child can sue the court as the legal representative of the child and ask the father of the child to pay the medical expenses. If the child needs money urgently for treatment, he can also apply to the court for advance execution and pay the treatment fee without waiting for the court decision.