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What is lazy marriage? Why do more and more people choose lazy marriage?

What is lazy marriage do you know? The word "lazy marriage" first appeared in some developed coastal areas. Influenced by the social and economic situation, the marriage and love relationship around them, and the personal psychological status, they have no traditional concept of marrying and having children when they are old, but they have a willing attitude, and there are not a few people with this attitude.

According to the data from the Civil Affairs Department, in 2017, the number of marriage registrations in China fell by 7% for four consecutive years. If you have no idea about the 7% drop in marriage registration, let me tell you a set of data. In 2017, there were 10.59 million couples getting married in China. For some people who are lazy to get married, not rushing to get married does not mean rejecting marriage. Instead, they feel that they will settle for marriage, which is not as good as the existing single life.

There are also some lazy people who are afraid of marriage because of the influence of the surrounding marriage changes. According to statistics, in 2017, 10.59 million new couples got married and 3.69 million divorced. Among them, there are 275705 couples divorced in Henan Province, which has become the province with the largest number of divorces in China. However, this is a large population base in Henan Province. The highest divorce rate is in developed cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and the highest divorce rate is in Beijing. In 2017, the divorce rate in Beijing was as high as 39%.

The main reasons for these marriages, which were once close to each other but ended in divorce, are: infidelity in marriage, personality incompatibility and economic reasons.

Because these vivid examples told him that every marriage was once full of vows and promises to live together for a lifetime, but there were many uncertainties about how far they could finally go.

Indeed, the gap between the rich and the poor and the cognitive gap in this society are increasing. Compared with the gap between the rich and the poor, what is more difficult to solve is the cognitive gap. The gap between the rich and the poor leads to a larger cognitive gap, and the pace is very difficult to be consistent. If one intrudes into life, it may break the original calm. Life is not better, but worse. It is not as good as one.

​: a female netizen said: if I get married, I will be charged with many crimes. For example, if I don't have children, don't honor my parents in law, don't be diligent enough, and waste my family. However, I have no family ties to eat, drink and drink alone. I want to travel all over the world alone, wandering thousands of mountains and seas. An interesting single is better than an easy love.