For husband and wife, harmonious sex life helps to cultivate and strengthen their feelings, so the quality of sex has a very important impact on their marriage life. For every woman, the body has the potential to orgasm. So what's the response to female orgasm?
According to sexologists, the size of a woman's walk and the rotation of her pelvis are closely related to her orgasm. Stewart explained that this study proved that different body shapes and postures make some women more likely to have orgasms.
The size of the stride and the rotation of the pelvis are limited by the flexibility of the pelvic muscles. The higher the flexibility is, the greater the movement of the pelvis is. Whether the pelvic muscles are flexible or not determines the degree of women's investment in sex and the degree of cooperation with their partners.
In addition, women's self-confidence will also be reflected in their walking posture. The greater the pace, the more confident they are in themselves. This kind of positive mental state can make it more involved in sexual love and enjoy the pleasure of sexual life.
What does a woman's orgasm look like
Orgasm can be cultivated
According to statistics, in the first month of marriage, 51% of brides have no orgasm, and only 25% of women have no orgasm a year later. Therefore, a woman's orgasm can be cultivated.
Compared with men, women's sexual desire is volatile, and the change of desire is cyclical, which corresponds to the menstrual cycle. When female desire is most intense, in two days before menstruation and seven days after menstruation, especially before menstruation is stronger than after menstruation. If a woman prepares a sexual desire curve for herself, it's easy to know when her desire reaches its peak, so that she can experience orgasmic pleasure more easily.
Most women have orgasmic potential
For every woman, the body has the potential to have an orgasm, except in very few cases. But why don't many women feel orgasm in their lives?
Experts believe that this is a psychological factor in mischief, for example, some women have had a very out of control situation during orgasm (such as urinary incontinence), this sense of out of control makes her feel afraid, and then psychological rejection of this feeling, will not pursue and cultivate orgasm. In fact, everyone's orgasmic reactions are different, and the reactions of any body are normal.
Experts say women's orgasmic responses are far more complex than men's. Women's ability to reach orgasm is 34% - 45% determined by their genes. Climax or not, may as well let it be natural, too strong to easily affect the intimate relationship between the two sexes.
To have an orgasm, you need to have a normal sexual desire
The occurrence of sexual desire has a lot to do with sex hormones. When the endocrine system in the body is abnormal and the hormone level is low, the desire will also be reduced, resulting in abnormal uterine contraction, and the receptivity to orgasm will also be reduced. So you have to have a normal desire to have an orgasm.
The factors influencing desire include: emotion, age, emotion, drinking, smoking, medicine, disease, vision, hearing, touch, smell, attention and memory. For example, obesity, antihypertensive drugs and sedative drugs can reduce women's sexual excitement and sexual desire, thus reducing their ability to feel orgasm. So orgasm has to do with libido.
The disappearance of a woman's consciousness gave her a sense of loss of control. It's because of this feeling that a woman's orgasm has a much better name - "short death.". For some women, especially those who experience orgasm for the first time, this loss of consciousness is terrible. At this time, if they are afraid of being looked down upon by the man due to their loss of control, this completely normal orgasmic response will be psychologically blocked, so that the orgasm cannot reach the maximum intensity.
At this stage of orgasm, no two women respond exactly the same, although their bodies experience similar physiological changes. Some women are very calm; some women are not moaning, they are screaming; some bow up their backs, or bite things beside them, such as arms, pillows, etc. When consciousness began to recover - but for a few seconds - almost all women felt warm, first in the pelvis and then all over the body.
A young married woman, frowning tightly, said that her husband is a very gentle and understanding of the amorous feelings of men, every time the sex is very successful. But lately I'm upset about my abnormal phenomenon. Because every time her husband 'finishes his duties', he breathes beside her with infinite comfort and happiness. She hopes that he will stay in her body and lean on her. She feels that there is still a surging torrent in her body, hoping that her husband can continue to do it. For this reason, she doubted whether she had been sexually aroused and felt that she had become a shameless lascivious woman.
In sexual life, when a woman contracts for the last time, her body will lose sexual tension rapidly, which marts and Johnson call "regression". If they don't disappear immediately, but return to the plateau period, and can repeatedly stimulate from the plateau period to orgasm, this phenomenon is "multiple orgasms", and every woman has this potential.
Multiple orgasms in women's sex making are not sexual metamorphosis, nor are they "excessive sexual desire", "bestiality" or "non feminization". The survey found that some women admit that they have a psychological burden of guilt, which they fear will contaminate the purity and sanctity of marriage. The problem of experiencing orgasm is about the couple's temperament, sexual maturity, hobbies and choices, as well as the art of making love.
The reason why a woman has multiple orgasms is that there are a large number of complex blood vessels in her pelvis, and the contracture of one-off orgasm can rarely discharge all the accumulated blood. It can be said that after the first orgasm, the woman is still full of sexual motivation and can continue to contract. Without a lot of stimulation, she can make the tension rise to the climax again and again. In fact, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on the amount of congestion in her pelvic vein.
Sometimes the amount of hyperemia is less, and the climax is lower; sometimes the amount of hyperemia is more, and the climax is reached. It is at this time that women are very likely to experience multiple orgasms. Sometimes because of anatomical differences, such as some women's venous network development is not complete, these women are difficult to reach orgasm. The problem seemed to disappear after they had their first child. Indeed, for many women who have experienced orgasm before pregnancy, it's easier to have orgasm after childbirth, sometimes with multiple orgasms the first time they have sex. This is the so-called 'pregnancy effect'. This may be related to the increase of pelvic vein energy and number during pregnancy.