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How does Anhui freshman stab his roommate? How do freshmen deal with their roommates?

Nowadays, many colleges and universities are about to open. For many freshmen, are they looking forward to their university life? But there are also many people who have not begun to enjoy their Freshmen's life and have already died. What is the matter with Anhui freshmen stabbing their roommates? On August 25, 2018, a homicide occurred in the No. 1 Middle School of Guzhen County, Bengbu, Anhui Province. Xu XX, a freshman of senior high school, was killed by his roommate Cui was stabbed to death with a fruit knife.

Police reported that the suspect Cui was caught on the spot, is now suspected of intentional homicide in criminal detention, the case is further investigation.

Experienced the baptism of the junior high school entrance examination students smoothly into the first year of high school. After entering high school, no matter in study, life, or psychology, there have been a lot of earth shaking changes. How to quickly adjust yourself in the new environment and make yourself adapt to high school life is the most important thing for the freshmen to think about.

Adjust mentality and reposition

Many high school freshmen are relatively excellent in junior high school, so they will have a sense of superiority in psychology. But after entering high school, everyone's performance is good, especially in some key high schools, the students are especially excellent. Some students fall from the top of junior high school classes to the middle and lower reaches of high school, which will lead to psychological imbalance and sense of loss. Entering high school, the first problem for freshmen is to settle their mind. No matter how much glory they have in the past, they should forget the past and put it into the new high school, which is the most important thing.

Adapt to the environment

Junior high school students generally rarely live in school, after entering high school, many students begin to live in school. Many students with good family conditions have good food at home and live in single rooms, but when they arrive at the school, they are all staying together. At first, they may feel very unaccustomed and feel that there is no private space. Some students will feel that the meals in the school canteen are not tasty, or even 'expensive and hard to eat'. Now that I have chosen to live in school, the right way is to adjust myself slowly.

Entering high school, facing a group of new students and teachers, students should learn to get along well with them and integrate into the new environment as soon as possible, which is even more important for high school students living in accommodation. In the new environment, high school students should take the initiative to communicate with teachers and students. They should be more tolerant and learn to identify with each other. Good interpersonal relationship can make new high school students live more smoothly in high school.

Active learning and exploring methods

In junior high school, learning knowledge is relatively simple. After entering senior one, both the amount of learning and the depth of learning are increasing rapidly. In junior high school, teachers play a great role, and students' self-study space is relatively small. But entering senior high school, there is a great demand for students' self-study ability. After the teacher finishes the lesson, more students are required to learn by themselves. At the beginning of the school, students should cultivate their ability of self-study slowly. They should not ask for help from others in case of any learning difficulties. They should learn to overcome their own learning difficulties.

First, learn to preview for initiative. Preview is an important part of learning. Through preview, you can have a preliminary understanding of what you are going to learn, so that you can listen to the lessons with emphasis and purpose, especially the knowledge that you can't understand by self-study, pay more attention to the analysis and reasoning of teachers, and learn the correct thinking methods. During the preview, we should form the habit of "no writing, no reading". We can make notes of the key knowledge points and knowledge structure in the text, which can not only deepen the impression of learning, but also accumulate materials for future learning and greatly improve the learning efficiency. The time and subjects of preview can be flexibly arranged according to the learning situation of the day. The subjects with weak foundation should adhere to the preview before class, so that they can basically have a targeted goal and strive for learning initiative when listening to the class.

Second, learn to listen to classes to ensure efficiency. Listening time is the main time for students to study. With the high efficiency of class attendance and more knowledge and methods mastered in class, students are likely to complete their learning tasks on time. When doing exercises, they can often get a happy and successful experience, further stimulate the desire for learning and promote the improvement of learning performance. However, some students have the following bad tendencies when they listen to the class: first, they think they understand it and are distracted; second, when they don't understand the difficulties, they are nervous and fidgety; third, they don't pay attention to the teacher's analysis, think with the teacher and just concentrate on taking notes. These should be corrected. Students should keep their concentration in class, think with the teacher, communicate with the teacher, discuss and solve problems, make some brief notes on some key contents appropriately, and reorganize after class to form their own knowledge. The learning effect will be greatly improved.

Third, learn to review and consolidate. Review is a good way to consolidate knowledge. Some students often stay in the simple mode of listening in class and doing exercises after class without scientific review methods. There are many ways and methods to review, such as organizing class notes, reading textbooks, reciting important contents, doing exercises, discussing some problems with teachers and classmates, summarizing knowledge system, and focusing on breaking through a certain knowledge point. Each student can review scientifically and systematically according to their own reality.

The freshmen in senior high school are faced with the transformation from the "nanny type" learning mode in junior high school to the "semi open type" learning mode in senior high school, so as to lay the foundation for the future "basic autonomous type" learning. Therefore, learning to study actively, mastering scientific learning methods and forming good learning habits are the basis for high school students to acquire knowledge and ability independently.

Learn to communicate and gain friendship

Due to the new learning and living environment, as well as the different learning contents and learning methods of the junior and senior high schools, some students are reluctant to communicate with their classmates, have psychological problems such as inferiority complex, improper learning methods and poor learning habits, which is not conducive to future learning and life. Learning to communicate is one of the essential basic qualities of high school students, and one of the basic skills of work and life in the future. The class is the first place to learn to communicate. The class has infinite strength and warmth, and the friendship between students is pure and selfless. Learn to communicate and integrate yourself into the class, you will get friendship and strength. Therefore, students should deal with interpersonal relationship reasonably.

First, we should use a positive attitude to communicate with our classmates. We can't wait for others to care about ourselves, let alone enjoy ourselves. Can take the initiative to introduce their own advantages, disadvantages, hobbies, character, etc. to others, so that others can understand themselves faster, so as to actively establish good interpersonal relationship with others.

Second, take the initiative to help students. When others have difficulties, we should do our best to help others and care more about others in study and life. In this way, you will win friendship and happiness.

Third, actively participate in class activities. The theme class meeting, discussion class, school and community activities, sports meeting, cultural and recreational activities, etc. carried out by the class, should not only actively participate, but also do their best to win honor for the class. This is not only a great opportunity to show yourself and integrate yourself into the class, but also to cultivate your own interests and abilities. Why not?