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How does female postpartum sex frigidity return a responsibility? How to regulate postpartum frigidi

Some women in the postpartum and her husband will have a cold phenomenon. Perhaps it is because postpartum put too much energy on the baby, so it will be cold, so that the husband's feelings are ignored, so what should postpartum cold do?

Causes of problems

1. Having sex early

There will be some changes in the genitals after childbirth. If you have sex too early, it will make women feel sick and uncomfortable. General postpartum at least through two to three months of recovery period, such as the body's basic energy recovery will return to normal people.

2. Changes of some hormones after childbirth

For example, the increase and decrease of progesterone and estrogen content will cause the lack of estrogen, which will change the internal environment of vagina. So in the postpartum sex should be recommended after three months.

3. Changes in organs

In the process of childbirth, some organs of women will be squeezed and traumatized, resulting in changes on some organs.

4. Excessive physical or mental exertion

It is a matter of energy and physical strength to have a baby. After the baby is born, it will take a lot of time and energy to take care of the crying baby, which will inevitably be unable to cope with the husband's demand for sexual life. Such as feeding the baby, changing diapers, shopping, cooking and many other things, not only consumed the physical strength of the mother, but also consumed her spirit. Therefore, as a husband, we should be more understanding and considerate.

How to deal with postpartum frigidity

Method 1: grasp the best time to recover sexual life

After six weeks of postpartum, the new mother should go for a comprehensive examination. If the reproductive organs are restored well and the heart is ready at the same time, this is the best time to restore sexual life.

Touch tips:

1. When the new mommy lacks interest, dislike or has many doubts about sexual life, the husband should understand and wait until she can accept.

2. The new mommy should also be more considerate of her husband and try to cooperate with her husband. If it's not handled properly, it's easy to get emotional cracks.

Method 2: never have sex early after childbirth

Having sex early can cause many gynecological diseases. If there is vaginal laceration and cervical laceration, or vaginal side resection, it is also easy to have pain, bleeding and organ damage, affecting wound healing. Moreover, the estrogen level of the new mommy is low, and the vagina is dry and elastic, so it is easy to damage the vagina if you start sex early.

Touch tips:

After 6 weeks of delivery, if the perineum wound is still hard and swollen, it can be washed and massaged with warm hot water during bathing to promote scar softening.

Method 3: be careful in the first 'intimate contact' after childbirth

The new mommy's cervix and vagina secretion of lubricating fluid is less, therefore, the first time postpartum 'intimate contact', the husband should be more romantic and gentle 'in advance play', when the exercise must be gentle, not impatient. Because husband abstinence time is long, easy to move more intense, cause perineal tissue damage, bleeding.

Touch tips:

During the postpartum period, the glands that lubricate the vagina often lose their normal function. When you feel the vagina is dry, you can use lubricant or grease.

Method 4: do not forget contraception when starting sexual life after childbirth

Many unwanted pregnancies occur in the first few months after childbirth. Because from 21 days after childbirth, some mothers may have begun ovulation, at this time, if there is sexual life, it is likely to be pregnant again. Therefore, pregnant women should not wait for menstrual recovery to start contraception. Ovulation often occurs in the first two weeks or so before menstruation. If contraceptive measures are not taken, pregnancy may occur. From the beginning of postpartum recovery of sexual life, regardless of menstruation or not, effective contraceptive measures should be taken, and fluke mentality is not allowed.

Touch tips:

1. Condom is the first contraceptive method after childbirth.

2. For the mothers who give birth naturally, the contraceptive ring can be put in 3 months after delivery; for the mothers who have caesarean section, the contraceptive ring can be put in half a year after delivery. To remind you, it's best for nursing mothers to put contraceptive ring after menstruation recovery.