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What about a man who doesn't smoke, drink or play cards

I am such a man. To be honest, I don't like myself. Therefore, men who don't smoke, drink or play cards are doomed to be lonely and have few true friends. However, the career will not be too bad, and the life emotion will be more harmonious. What do you think? What else do you think? The nature of character is hard to change. It's easy to change, but hard to change. Both the positive and the negative apply.

Just because I don't smoke doesn't mean I don't smoke. I used to smoke, but strangely, I'm not addicted. Later, because of smoking, often brings chest tightness, they do not smoke. They do not take smoke or fire on their bodies, do not pass others' cigarettes or receive others' cigarettes. However, it's strange that I have to smoke as long as I'm alone in the office writing articles. When you leave the office, you don't smoke. I don't know if it's schizophrenia.

Just because I don't drink doesn't mean I didn't drink before. In the past, I worked as the office director of a large company. In that era, social activities were normal work. Shandong people had a strong wine style, often three or three large cups of white wine were stuffy. On the scene, I was so bored that I ran to the bathroom and whooped. Go home at night, get up in the middle of the night, and then spit out bile to continue to sleep, otherwise the stomach is like a fire.

I don't play cards. That doesn't mean I didn't play before. In the past, when working at the grass-roots level, playing cards was the only way for the brothers to have fun during the lunch break. Shandong people like playing "qualified" Poker best. Six people fight, a circle of people around, command, noisy, very lively. In particular, when I grabbed a handful of paintings and stood up to hold them for three times, I felt really cool. Later, when I arrived in Beijing, I couldn't gather six people to fight. It became a very regrettable thing.

Some people will say, don't smoke, don't drink, don't play cards, what's the fun of life? In fact, life has a lot of fun. People who read books don't understand the meaning of a group of people shouting and playing cards there? Card players despise those bookworms who read quietly. Drink and drink, stand on the table and point out the rivers and mountains. People who don't drink think they are stupid lunatics. People who drink think they are still men when they look at the men who don't drink and sit on the table? People who smoke, feel that kind of floating feeling, don't smoke on the whole body crazy; people who don't smoke, especially women, see smoking on the nose, feel so choking, how can someone else silly to smoke in the stomach. Therefore, people have their own interests, and people have their own interests. You don't understand other people's interests. Neither do other people understand your interests.

But from my experience, men who don't smoke, drink or play cards are bound to narrow their communication in the current domestic environment. Because 80% of the laws in China are grass-roots. The deep-rooted social means are smoking, drinking, playing cards and boasting. Therefore, a man without these means of communication, interpersonal relationship is lack of an opportunity. However, if you let a person who doesn't like the bustle, he will not feel comfortable. Just like me, a table is filled with smoke, crisscrossing cups, shouting loudly and falling into the sky. One hour, I can stand it. More than two hours, I think it's a waste of life. It's not Qinggao. It's not fake Qinggao. It's just that I don't like it.

Finally, it's a law of work and life. A man who has no shortcomings or weaknesses, that is, when others are impeccable to you, it's definitely not a good thing. People, don't like perfect people without shortcomings, just like a line, this man has no obvious shortcomings, I don't like it, and feel terrible.

In fact, it's overstated. For example, I don't smoke, drink or play cards, but I don't think it's perfect. On the contrary, it's just a shortcoming. I'm not good at uniting people around me. Moreover, I have more shortcomings. If I like quiet, I don't like sports, so I'm not fit. The point is that such a person is not harbouring any conspiracy, but just dislikes it. He is still very kind-hearted in heart. He is still very welcome to visit his friends. He just likes a cup of green tea, sitting and chatting. His heart is very sunny and full.