The annual April Fool's Day is coming to 2018. How to celebrate April Fool's day? In this festival, many people will choose to express their love. Even if they are rejected, it won't be very embarrassing. So is April Fool's Day suitable for expressing their love? April Fool's day's speech strategies are complete. Although it's a joke, a heart of love can be understood.
Is April Fool's Day 2018 suitable for confession
Before discussing the question of fit and unfitness, first think about the relationship between love itself and when to express your love. If Li Minho confesses with a girl who is infatuated with him on April Fool's day, the girl will agree. If it is Mr. Tang Maru, NIMA's national day, Christmas and any other festival will not succeed!
To get back to the point, the fundamental problem in judging whether a girl is suitable or not is not when, but whether you like her or not. If the girl doesn't like you, it's useless to say anything. If the girl likes you, even on April Fool's day, you can make your confession successful. It is the existence of information asymmetry that causes the essence of anxiety.
Therefore, the most important purpose of expressing love on April Fool's Day is not to express love, but to understand the girl's attitude through a controllable opportunity, obtain the information of the other party, and achieve the purpose of knowing oneself and the other. A lot of students say that it's cowardly behavior to talk to loser B on April Fool's day, but I don't think so, because for experts, chasing girls is strategic. Every step of the attack of the chess master will not break his own back. If you express your love at ordinary times and are given a good person card by a girl, you can only go back to you resentfully. However, if you are given a good person card on April Fool's day, you can easily turn the relationship back to your ordinary friends through various technical means and continue to cultivate in case of future attacks.
Some other students will say that if you express your love on April Fool's day, even if the girl agrees, the next day they can also say that they tease you, and then break up with you. This is technical life, because as I said before, the purpose of your confession on this day is not to let the girl know that you like him, but to let you know whether the girl likes you or not. So no matter what the girl says, you should see her reaction when she hears your confession and her tone when she responds to you, so as to judge whether she also feels for you. (this technology involves emotional psychology theories such as microexpression, language tone expression and so on, which will not be described in detail here.) when you find that the girl likes you, you can further promote it; if you find that the girl doesn't like you, you can immediately turn to defense and pull the relationship back to the original position.
Chasing a girl is like fighting between the two countries. We should learn from Goujian, the king of Yue, and give ourselves a chance to turn around. In the future, we can make a comeback and make great achievements.
Because of the special nature of April Fool's day national joke, many people choose to confide their sincerity to the people they like on April 1. But there seems to be a lot of controversy about this kind of advertising which seems to be full of setbacks. Let's see what everyone says.
Support faction
Zhang classmate of Heilongjiang University: 'I don't think it's bad. After all, the risk of confession is still very high, so it's not bad to be a friend after that. '
Classmate Wang of Shanghai University of Finance and Economics: 'it seems that it's sad to sincerely express your love through the nature of joke, and it's also a way to avoid being hurt. I don't think there's any special criticism or anything. '
Neutral
Classmate Kong of Shanghai University said: 'I didn't think too much about it. April Fool's Day is not different from usual. I have to choose a day to express my love. It's OK. It's not OK. It won't be different because of special holidays. '
Zhao classmate of Dalian University of Technology: 'if you are a boy, you shouldn't be. Your husband is afraid of nothing. But girls can understand. They have a thin skin. '
opposition
Li classmate of Jilin University: 'I don't like to express myself on April Fool's day. I feel that even if I'm sincere, I'm not so serious. Besides, if we still want to get back from advertising, we are not responsible for it. '
Zhang classmate of Beijing Printing Institute: 'I've been confessed by a boy on April Fool's day before. I was afraid of hurting him, so I seriously refused. As a result, he said that he was joking, and immediately I was very embarrassed. I didn't even have the heart to be a friend with him. '
In fact, most of the students who choose to express their love on this day are in a state of mind of stepping back from the sea to the sky. If they fail to succeed, they can use jokes to cover up and do no harm to each other. However, some students think that it is this kind of "joking" that makes many people who have been expressed dare not take this idea seriously. On the contrary, they can't even make friends. At the same time, they will feel particularly embarrassed.
But in fact, no matter on that day, Xiaobian wants to say to everyone: students, if you have someone you like, don't suppress your nature and dare to say it! Don't be Valentine's day or April Fool's day anymore! Don't care about success and failure!
April Fool's Day 2018
1. Prepare love letter
This is a very important job. Don't be too lazy when you are sincere, because it will be a popular love letter.
2. Advance planning
It is said that this year's April Fool's Day is Friday. There are only two hours at noon and at night.
Prepare in advance, book hotel, amount. No, it's the restaurant. Don't take out the flowers first. Hide them. Prepare them with both hands.
3. Invite for dinner
Try to be sure. Don't invite people to fail. You can't be vague about this.
Pay attention to the dining atmosphere. Hey, you'd better have a little wine.
4. Single confession
Make an appointment or follow up with the person you are interested in. If you are not brave, express your love bravely with your wine strength. Romantic love letters are ready. Don't show flowers at this time.
5. Best wishes from colleagues
If it's not a failure, use the power of the masses. It's hard to start everything. First try to make sure the relationship and then pay attention slowly.