Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to the sense of ceremony. There are various aspects of ceremonies, big and small. As the most important ceremony in life, marriage should pay more attention to the details of all aspects, so as not to be disrespectful. Now let's take a look at the necessary etiquette for weddings. None of these six kinds is rare.
What are the bride's fathers
The father of the bride plays a very important role in the wedding. In the entrance ceremony, take your baby daughter, step by step to the bridegroom for a solemn and sacred 'handover ceremony'. The focus of people's attention is to wear a casual dress and compare it with the bride's exquisite wedding dress. The painting style is seriously inconsistent and full of violation. So, bridegroom and bride, don't patronize your beauty. Don't forget to buy a suit for Dad and a skirt for mom.
Seating arrangement
Seat arrangement is the double test of IQ and EQ, a wave of worldly wisdom is waiting for you. No matter how many people are invited to a wedding, how many tables are handled, the primary and secondary order should be distinguished. Who sits at the main table and the secondary table respectively, and who has' grudges and feelings' in advance.
Tea ceremony
Order of tea ceremony: generally, the bridegroom presents the first cup of tea to his father-in-law, then to his mother-in-law, and then the bride, in the same order as the bridegroom. Respect tea: kneeling, first, respect for both parents, or gratitude for parents. Title: it's better to change from 'you' to 'you'.
Change a red envelope
It's a big red bag that parents will seal after a new person makes tea. The bridegroom and the bride have a share. There is no special requirement for the number. The most important thing is a heart. Some elders are extravagant. In order to get a good start, 10001 yuan and 9999 yuan red envelopes are very common, representing one in a million and a long time respectively. Some are integers, such as 6000 yuan or 8000 yuan, which means that they are in pairs. Note: in order to avoid the two families choosing each other, the parents of both sides had better discuss in advance. The number of red envelopes should be the same or not much different. If the bridegroom's family gives two red envelopes, the bride's family should also pack two.
Speech on stage
In addition to the new couple, there are representatives of parents, or some important people. If several people are ready to come to the stage, they must be informed in advance, and the temporary play of this kind of thing should not happen. Of course, if you meet parents who are not good at words, you can use other links instead.
Toast sequence
Toasting is a great test of human experience beyond seating arrangements. Generally, after the cold dish and the first course are finished at the main table, the bridegroom and the bride change into toast service to toast one by one. The order is to toast the main table first, then the secondary table, and finally the rest tables. Toasting is not only for everyone at every table, but also for everyone's needs, such as sending candy to children, lighting cigarettes, etc. There are also names and appellations, which must be understood in advance, or both new people should guide each other.
How to arrange the table of wedding banquet seats
Arrangement of the main table: who are sitting at the main table? New people, parents, elders, brothers and sisters, marriage witnesses (matchmakers). How to sit? New people sit facing everyone, with parents, elders and marriage witnesses on both sides.
Other table arrangement: in addition to the above table arrangement, this kind of design of the main table facing the aisle is also very common. Generally, according to the principle of male left and female right, the positions on both sides of the passageway are arranged from near to far to relatives and friends, leaders and superiors, best man and bridesmaid, colleagues and classmates, ordinary friends, etc.
2. Seating arrangement of two main tables
In some places or where there are too many relatives to sit at the main table, a main table can be arranged for both men and women. The arrangement of the main table is basically the same as that in the first case: the male main table: the first is the bride and groom, and the two sides are the male parents, grandparents, uncles and uncles and other elders in turn; the female main table: the first is the female parents, followed by grandparents, uncles and uncles and other elders. The older generation should try their best to arrange in a place close to the stage and convenient for travel, far away from the serving position to avoid collision. The leader's position is suggested to be arranged in the row behind the main table close to the passageway to reflect their identity and position, as well as the respect of new people for them.
3. Special arrangements
The love and hatred between some friends must be understood clearly. Otherwise, Mars will hit the earth and bring bad memories to the wedding. It can also benefit some single people of the same age and lead a red line. It's not too intimate.
Wedding tea preparation should be in place;
Kneeling pad / kneeling pillow: a pair of red, with a good meaning such as "happy" or "happy year".
To tea cup: the traditional Chinese porcelain bowl with big red cover is generally selected.
Tea: Tieguanyin or Pu'er is generally selected. In addition to tea, red dates and lotus seeds (one pair for each cup of tea) need to be prepared.
matters needing attention:
1. Report to parents in advance, the structure and use method of the teacup, to avoid the separation and breaking of the saucer and teacup in the ceremony.
2. Arrange a special person to deliver tea nearby. The wedding is so busy that it's hard to avoid the chaos of tea.
3. Remember: red dates cannot be seeded, and lotus seeds should not be peeled.
≫ & gt; & gt; tea ceremony should be conducted in a proper way;
"Kneeling on the ground, kneeling on the ground and kneeling on the parents' feet" is the best way to kneel when worshiping tea. Thanks for your parents' support, it is more sincere and solemn.
Standard posture: hold the cup with both hands and bow the upper body;
It is better to reach the teacup forward to the parents without moving their body.
Matters needing attention
1. Male left female right, bridegroom relative father, bride relative mother.
2. The temperature of tea should not be too high, and it should be 'seven points full' (not too full, and 'tea full deceives people').
3. Don't offer tea with one hand, don't put your finger on the mouth of the cup, and don't soak it in the tea. It's impolite.
4. Order of tea ceremony: first groom, then bride; first father, then mother; first tea ceremony, then change.
5. When parents return gifts of red envelopes / gold jewelry, they should also catch them with both hands.
≫ & gt; & gt; parental considerations & lt; & lt; & lt;
1. Prepare red envelopes and gold jewelry in advance.
2. When serving tea, it's better to pick up the tea with both hands.
3. Take a sip of tea, and then return the cup to the new person, who will give it to the tea man.
4. When the new person changes his / her name to parents, he / she should smile loudly and say some blessing words or instructions when handing in the red envelope.
If the custom, in addition to parents, but also to other elders of tea, according to the order of elders, in turn, tea change. In addition to their close relatives, other elders can use ordinary teacups to serve tea.
Parents are not good at words and how to address letters
In this form of letter, you can also move to the wedding. In advance, ask the MC or friends with good writing skills to edit the manuscript according to what their parents want to say. At the ceremony, the MC reads the letter on the side of the stage, and the stage LED large screen plays some old photos and wedding photos. In this way, parents can not only sit under the stage to observe the ceremony, but also pass on the blessing.
video mode
Similar to letters, but more intuitive. Before the wedding, the photographer makes a simple interview for the parents, clips the video and plays it in the wedding speech, which is simple but warm, and avoids the parents' tension.
Choose a representative to give a speech
If both parents have a better expression ability and no stage fright, it's easy to do. At the wedding, several parents came to the stage together, but the speech was delivered by the representative. At the end of the speech, toast with the new people or take photos of the family. Of course, you can also bring the tea ceremony to the wedding ceremony, so that parents can just sit and promise.