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How can children listen? Learn to communicate more smoothly

Most parents are worried about their children's rebellion. When children reach puberty, they tend to be rebellious. Their parents usually don't listen to their children's words. At this time, their parents are more worried and there will be a gap between them. When children don't listen to their parents, what can they do as parents? How can children listen? Don't worry, Xiaobian will give you ideas and share with you how to let your children listen to their parents.

First of all, we should establish good communication with children. We should always communicate with our children, care for them and let them know their parents' heart. Most children don't listen to their parents, mostly due to the lack of communication with their parents, parents and children don't know each other very well and don't trust each other very much. Children can't believe their parents, and they don't believe their children very much. In this way, when children encounter things, they will not want to choose to tell their parents. When parents talk about their children, they won't listen. At this time, it is a good way for children to listen to their parents' words to keep good daily communication with them.

Second, parents should respect their children and learn to think from their children's perspective. Nowadays, the relationship between parents and children is not as good as that between father and son in ancient times. Children need a kind of respect from their parents, who should treat their children as an independent individual. Treat children correctly. We should establish an equal and harmonious relationship between father and son.

Then, when parents want to educate their children, they must pay attention to the way of education. They should be moved by emotion and reason. They cannot always scold their children. If we always scold our children, they will not listen to what we say. So, it's very important for us to send our kids the way they say it. We should pay attention to the tone and attitude.

These are some of the tips that Xiaobian shared with you on how to say that children will listen. If you find that when you teach your children to talk about their children and their children don't listen very much, as parents, we need to reflect on whether our own way is wrong. The harmony between parents and children still needs to work together for us.