The annual children's Day is coming. Many parents must have participated in children's June 1 activities. Not all people are happy about the activity of "celebrating" June 1. Most of them even complain. Let's take a look at the specific content.
Children's Day? Children's Performance Festival
My friend Xiao He told me to make complaints about the 61 of her daughter in the kindergarten class. She bought the dance shoes first, and she bought them online. I went to the store to buy it. I even ran to several stores and they were out of stock. Another student, who was an English teacher, was asked to go to the kindergarten to watch the performance. To this end, we had to adjust the class, but so three classes together made the students complain. The depression is that after the performance, the clothes and shoes are the same as those bought last year and hide in the corner to make ash. They from ordinary working families also love wasted money and things.
Search 'dance shoes' on a treasure. Seven stores sold more than 15000 pairs in the last month, and the champion store reached an amazing 75000 pairs. In the comment area, many buyers said that they bought shoes for children to participate in children's Day performances.
These days, the circle of friends has also blowout the performance equipment of Baoma's children's day. In some anxious places, the performance has taken the lead. Not only do kindergartens and primary schools have performances, but many training institutions also have a strong sense of existence. " Still let children watch TV and play games? Come to our dance training! Next year's children's day, your child will be the brightest star! " A friend who opened an art training class also rubbed a wave of heat.
Although many parents showed great enthusiasm, encouragement and praise, there were of course make complaints about them in front of teachers, but I also saw many young faces hidden in gorgeous clothes and exaggerated makeup. At this time, I will open the 'three rhetorical questions' in my heart: shouldn't children's day be a festival for children to play happily? Why should they show us adults? Why don't adults show programs to children during festivals?
Many years ago, I went to a kindergarten to interview children's Day activities. It was very sunny that day. The children put on their clothes early and painted their faces. They were exposed to the sun at the entrance of the stage and sweating profusely. The leaders of the Education Bureau and the street who were invited to watch the show took the trouble to humble their seats in the cool auditorium. A young female teacher loved the children and could only comfort them in a soft voice. It would be over soon. I wonder if there will be a strange feeling in the hearts of those parents under the stage? Anyway, I'm embarrassed as an adult.
In recent years, in some big cities, the trend that children must perform programs for parents and leaders on children's day has been reversed. Parents will take their children to dinner, send their children books and toys, and many units will organize employees to take their children to carry out parent-child activities. But according to my observation, in many small and medium-sized cities and towns, performance is still the mainstream or even the only way to celebrate the festival. Even worse in rural areas, not only children's day, as long as it is a festival, children must dress up and perform on the stage. Watching their skillful or clumsy performance, adults give proud or ridiculed comments in various channels such as the circle of friends. As for whether the children are willing or not and whether Gao is happy, no one seems to care.
Today's children's day, of course, does not need to be as serious and heavy as it was at the beginning of the festival. Relaxed, happy and lively should be the main tone. We need rich and colorful festival contents. Those who like singing, dancing and performing can be displayed on the stage as much as possible. What's wrong with those who don't love them, going to play with their friends, or sleeping in, staying at home and watching TV and playing games?
We need more tolerance and empathy. Give back the right to enjoy sex only once a year to the children without discount. Speaking from heart to heart, when we adults face holidays, we also hope that we can control ourselves freely, rather than being controlled by others? At least, can you attach yourself and listen carefully to the children's ideas? With a little selfishness, it can also make parents less trouble and save environmental protection.
Many years ago, there was a children's song called "happy festival", which sang children's day. There are birds, flowers and beautiful clothes in the song, but the highlight is this sentence: 'Dear uncles and aunts, spend this happy festival with us!' Look! We once had such a clear understanding and inclusive attitude: the protagonist of children's Day is children, and big talents cooperate with the performance. Such children's day, such 'uncles and aunts', how good.