'the biggest enemy of women is still women. 'I've been married for more than half a year. Although I'm careful every step of the way, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me is always cold. It turns out that I'm not the one chosen by my mother-in-law. If you can find the crux of the problem, it will be much easier to do!
First of all, let my mother-in-law know that although I am not her first choice, I can still take good care of her baby son with her heart. The most important thing is to let her mother-in-law regain her lost face and fully feel that her status as empress dowager will last forever. Anyway, her son is my husband, so close the door and let him be a Rolex. One morning, my husband had a little dispute with my mother-in-law. It's sunny tomorrow, but my mother-in-law says it's going to rain. She wants her son to take an umbrella. My husband thinks it's cumbersome and plans to fight it out. At the critical moment, I firmly stood on my mother-in-law's side: 'mom is right. Take it first and be prepared. 'My husband looked at me in surprise. He knew that I was the one who didn't like to take umbrellas like him. My mother-in-law smiles because of my support.
It's a small trial, and it's very effective. I'll try my best to follow my mother-in-law's advice when it doesn't involve small matters of principle. 'ma, you can do it! 'Mom, you has the final say! 'My mother-in-law has a growing sense of accomplishment, so she's in a good mood.
My mother-in-law was soft hearted and willing to give me a chance to get close to her. Once upon a time, I bought a sweater for my mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law said 'thank you' and put it in the bottom of the box.
Now it's different. I bought a lot of favorite food for my mother-in-law to fully cater to her taste. Everything is' local '. From local chicken to local honey, my mother-in-law Dayue took me to study nutrition recipes together.
I had the cheek to give my mother-in-law a shoulder and neck massage, while trying to sensationalize: "Mom, you have made great contributions to this family, and I am perfectly justified in serving you. 'My husband covered his mouth and vomited. As soon as I reached out, I pulled him to the sofa: 'husband, you've worked hard, and I'll serve you. You know, my son is my mother's heart. If my mother-in-law can see that I am good to her son, it will definitely give me a big bonus.
In the twinkling of an eye, a few years later, my mother-in-law and I are not only at peace, but also growing in love. My mother-in-law no longer regrets that I am not her chosen daughter-in-law. I'm very happy. A colleague is going to get married. I told her: there is an idiom called 'love the house and the crow'. Just think about it, the 'little crow' we met all depends on the care of the old house for decades, and now it's so bright. Right here, you should be grateful. Even if the mother-in-law's opinion is too heavy, she should not be ignored. Family and everything is good, mother-in-law is good, everyone is good.