Recently, Jinan middle court held a trial of this intentional homicide case - Ren Mou, daughter-in-law, smashed her mother-in-law with a brick and then knocked down the fake courtyard wall, causing an accident, but was discovered by the police. In the court, Ren argued that the cause of all this was all year-round domestic violence & hellip; & hellip;
Can't bear years of domestic violence and resentment turned into bricks and smashed at my mother-in-law
On March 6, this year, a "wall collapse" occurred in a rental house in Licheng District: in 60 days, old lady Feng fell beside the wall of her rented house, her head was broken and blood flowed. When the ambulance arrived, people had no breath. After receiving the alarm, Licheng police also quickly sent police to the scene to investigate.
According to the relevant evidence, at the time of the incident, Feng Mou, a 67 year old woman, was lying on her side beside the wall of her hospital with scattered bricks. The old man suffered from head hemorrhage and multiple fractures. At this time, she stopped breathing.
However, how is the case of accidental homicide found to be a 'intentional homicide'?
According to the investigation of video data collected by the police, it was found that in the period after the accident of my mother-in-law Feng, Ren once hurried out of the yard with a large plastic bag and threw it away before returning.
According to the walking track of Ren's discarded 'garbage', the police found the discarded items of Ren in the nearby garbage bin, among which there were items such as down jackets stained with blood.
It's not uncommon for relatives to be stained with blood when they are in danger, but why are they busy discarding the clothes with blood before the police arrive?
In order to confirm the speculation of the police, the police of the police station summoned Ren in accordance with the law late that night. Facing the interrogation of the police, Ren told the whole story: it was her who, after a dispute with her mother-in-law Feng, smashed him to the ground with bricks and pushed down the courtyard wall, trying to forge the scene into a fake scene where the courtyard wall collapsed accidentally and killed people.
How much hatred does Ren have to put his mother-in-law to death? In the face of the judge's inquiry, Ren argued that if they didn't roll me, scold me and beat me, I wouldn't be & hellip; & hellip.
After three to five, the two will quarrel. On the day of the incident, there will be a quarrel over the water
In the court, the prosecutor gave two pieces of testimony, one by Ren's husband and the other by his sister-in-law. According to the testimony of her husband Zhao, his mother Feng and Ren have always had a bad relationship, and Ren has complained to him for many times. However, Zhao feels that the problem is still in office, so he often fights with Ren. Zhao's view also shows that Ren is introverted and doesn't like to talk, which often conflicts with his mother-in-law Feng. And Ren is lazy, not good at housework, and can't cook, so every three to five mother-in-law will quarrel.
Ren said that she has given birth to three children for her husband, six, five and a half years old. There are men and women, but her mother-in-law doesn't want to see her at all and is not good to her children. Even little things like children going to their mother-in-law's house to eat and watch TV will be blocked.
So what happened on the day of the crime?
Ren said that she and her mother-in-law usually cook separately. On that day, due to the time limit for water use in the rental room, they only deliver water from 12 to 13 at noon. After her mother-in-law filled her water tank, she began to wash the dishes and chopsticks again. She kept occupying the tap all the time, because she found that her water tank was out of water, so Ren, who was in a hurry to collect water and cook, wanted her mother-in-law to leave, and the two sides quarreled again.
'she hit me in the waist with a brick. 'Ren said that the more she wanted to get angry, she went back to the house and put on a down jacket and gloves. Because her mother-in-law is taller than her, she picks up a brick and smashes it on her head from behind unexpectedly. After the event, she worries that things will be exposed. She pushes down the wall to make a fake, but she is still seen through.
The prosecutor said that because the family conflicts could not be properly handled, Ren Mou killed her mother-in-law. According to the relevant evidence, her behavior has constituted the crime of intentional homicide and should be severely punished according to law. However, since Ren can plead guilty in court, and his three children are still young, the court may be asked to give them a lighter consideration at trial. However, it remains to be further analyzed whether Ren's confession constitutes surrender. Defence counsel also subsequently expressed their opinion. At present, the case is still under further trial.
This is a tragic Murder Caused by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only from the analysis of this case, the main causes of this murder are as follows:
1. The daughter-in-law is a second marriage. She thinks that her mother-in-law is indifferent to her, which causes her daughter-in-law's inner depression for a long time.
2. The daughter-in-law complains to her husband, but her husband Zhao feels that the problem is always on her daughter-in-law, so she often fights with her daughter-in-law for this. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not only not moderated by her husband, but also regarded as her own fault.
3. The daughter-in-law is introverted and doesn't like to talk, which may cause the illusion of bullying. At last, she can't control it.
4. The mother-in-law said that it was because the daughter-in-law was lazy, not good at housework, and could not cook.
Generally speaking, what are the causes of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very complicated. There is not only the conflict between the old and new values, but also the competition for the dominance of the son / husband. Generally speaking, psychologists and sociologists all explain it as follows: Traditional Chinese families attach great importance to parent-child relationship, while neglecting husband wife relationship. The young generation (especially the young women) receive the modern education and regard the relationship between husband and wife with love as the core of the family. There must be a conflict between the two concepts.
And the most difficult thing is that there are also ethical and moral problems between parents and children, as well as emotional entanglements among family members, so it can not be judged by ordinary social right and wrong standards, so the so-called clean officials are hard to break housework.
However, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't have a deep hatred at the beginning, just because they don't find a proper way to get along with each other in daily life, which leads to the intensification of the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
How to avoid / ease the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
First of all, a daughter-in-law should respect and care for her mother-in-law. According to the investigation of relevant parties, most of the families are now "in power" by the daughter-in-law, so the daughter-in-law has the primary responsibility in solving the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. To be a daughter-in-law, we should pay attention to respect and care for her mother-in-law, discuss with the old people when things happen, try to be 'open to the public' and give her some pocket money regularly or irregularly. Every season, or mother-in-law's birthday, remember to prepare some gifts for her mother-in-law.
Secondly, in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of son is very important. When the mother-in-law has troubles, she will find her son to tell her; when the daughter-in-law has been wronged, she will tell her husband. In this case, if a son only listens to one word, believes in one side, favors one side and criticizes the other side, it will add fuel to the fire and aggravate the contradiction. The only way for a son to alleviate the conflict between his mother and daughter-in-law is to keep a bowl of water level, neither to disappoint his mother nor to let his wife complain about her troubles.
Finally, the mentality is very important. From the perspective of the daughter-in-law, of course, I hope that the mother-in-law has no desire or selfless dedication, but you should know that the mother-in-law is different from the mother after all. I can't expect my mother-in-law to treat you like my mother-in-law. That's extravagant hope. I have to be prepared in this way.