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What's going on in the case of regicide? It's the tragedy of who made it

What's going on in the case of regicide? It's the tragedy of who made it

At noon on November 15, Bao Fang's ashes were returned to Baosheng village, yangluozhou Town, Yuanjiang City, Hunan Province, where he grew up. Mr. Bao, who stood on the platform three days ago, is now separated from the world by Yin and Yang.

Event review

On the afternoon of November 12, Baofang, a 47 year old teacher, was assassinated in the office of No.3 middle school in Yuanjiang City, Hunan Province. The assassin was the "top student" in the class and Luo, 16. According to the information disclosed by the school, Mr. Bao is a kind and effective teacher. But student Luo Mou is a disposition is withdrawn, the disposition introverts student. The only reason for the conflict is that Mr. Bao criticized Mr. Luo. If he didn't write a movie, he would change his class. Because this sentence caused Luo's extreme dissatisfaction and resentment, so he killed people with a knife.

Who is responsible for this educational tragedy?

After this tragedy, the public opinion on the Internet is basically divided into two groups. One thinks that students are hard to teach and have a strong personality, which leads to this tragedy; the other thinks that teachers' morality has declined sharply, and they only have money to earn extra fees in various ways of making up lessons.

Moral deficiency

It is a problem of moral deficiency to discuss events without events themselves. At any time, there are students with extremely dark psychology and teachers with bad ethics. What's more, it's an era of money theory. We can't pursue money by any means and at the same time, we also need our teachers to be as good as jade. Teachers who can be as good as jade and stick to their professional integrity must be the model of this era, but we can't say how bad they are if we try our best to make money. We can only say that their ideas are in line with the mainstream of the times. You must have the right to pursue the beauty of luxury cars at the same time. Teachers are just a kind of career to support the family, not a kind of career to shape moral sages.

Back to the event itself, we can feel from the information disclosed by the school that Luo, a student, is eccentric, not cheerful enough, and has little communication with others, which is the root cause of the tragedy. Obviously, the reason for shaping his character must not be the responsibility of the school, but the family. The other students have 100 yuan a week, while the father who runs the clinic only gives Luo 20 yuan a month. From this detail, we can feel that Luo's tutoring must be extremely harsh and not close to human nature. For children growing up in this atmosphere, it is not in line with the law of human development to talk about human nature and gratitude. It's just like talking about morality with a person who eats at the edge of a knife every day. It's nonsense.

Family education is very important

Of course, the growth of students should not only rely on the education of teachers, but also pay attention to the impact of family education. But how many parents pay attention? If you really want your children to achieve something in the future, you have to work hard on yourself. Children's imitation ability is very strong, and the ability to distinguish right from wrong is often insufficient. You can't be diligent in your work every day and ignore the students, but at the same time ask your children to work hard, to stand out in the future and win honor for you; you can't lie on the sofa and watch mobile phones and TV programs every day after work, but at the same time ask your children to look good at books and become a knowledgeable and deep person. How can you ask others to realize your unrealistic life ideal when you are young?

As the saying goes, "dragon begets dragon, Phoenix begets Phoenix, and the son of a mouse will make a hole.". What kind of person you are, and what kind of person your children will be, is the essence of education. You are an optimistic and positive person. It can be concluded that your child will also inherit your character. No matter how many books he reads in the future, he will not be too bad. You are a man who does not want to be enterprising, who has no requirements and principles for your life, but cares about others. Without accident, he will also become a thoroughly philistine.

We can't change anything in the tragedy. It's just a comforting words to wish the dead rest. The unjustified accusation against others in the moral highland is just a quick speech. Are there few tragedies in education in these years? If we can really learn from tragedies, our education has already undergone a fundamental conceptual change over the years. Instead of reflecting on education, teachers' moral quality and children's personality, we should first reflect on ourselves to see whether we are a qualified and competent parent and whether we have really achieved the exemplary role in education. No matter what era, country or race, the best education and the worst education come from parents themselves.

Explore 'extreme behavior'

Juvenile delinquency and homicide are frequently reported. The most profound memory of our generation is Ma Jiajue. When the Ma Jiajue incident happened, we were still learning on campus. At that time, we treated this incident as news, and it was inevitable to have some thoughts when we heard this news again with the growth of age. What causes teenagers to have such extreme behaviors? Can it be explained from the psychological point of view? After reviewing the relevant literature, let's have a preliminary discussion.

Criminal psychology is a subject that studies a special psychological phenomenon of criminals. According to the theory of dialectical materialism, criminal psychology, like other psychological phenomena, is the subjective image of objective reality in human brain. It is not something inherent in human brain, nor something existing in isolation from material conditions. When it comes to juvenile delinquency, it also has its own criminal psychology, which is a psychological force to encourage and maintain juvenile delinquency. By analyzing the criminal psychology, we can see through the criminal's mind and find out the psychological crux of the crime, so that we can observe it with heart, move it with emotion, understand it with reason and cure their psychological diseases.

The same is true of this incident. In the eyes of many teachers, Luo is a very good student, mainly because of his good study and obvious learning progress. The teachers value him very much and hope that he can get a good result in the exam. I think the good impression of the teachers on the students mostly comes from this. Mr. Bao Fang, the head teacher, paid more attention to him than to him. Just because of a few criticisms, Luo was able to assassinate Bao Fang, the teacher. There may be many things that we spectators can't understand. However, in combination with the psychological characteristics and criminal reasons of juvenile offenders in this incident and some similar cases:

1. The students lack the correct outlet and effective channel

Both Luo and Ma Jiajue are obedient children in the eyes of teachers and parents. They are introverted, have few words and are not good at communication. These students are not easy to say at the first time after suffering some grievances from the outside world, and most of them take their patience as the first solution. When repression reaches a certain level, it will explode with an extreme solution. I think this event is more likely.

2. Personality cognitive imbalance

Young people's psychology is in the developing period, their outlook on life and values have not been formed, their thoughts are simple, their judgment ability is low, and they belong to the weaning period of psychology and the dangerous period of behavior. At the same time, young people's self-control is weak, social experience is little, in a certain internal and external causes, it is easy to embark on the road of crime. The majority of juvenile delinquency is not premeditated, the motive is single, the emotion is impulsive, the crime has great blindness.

3. Family satisfaction imbalance

This event only from the news report, there is no report about the imbalance of family satisfaction, but for many juvenile criminal events, it reflects the reality of family imbalance. Some research shows that 38% of the children in juvenile delinquency are divorced families, and 15% of the children's parents are not in love.

I hope that after this incident, you will condemn Luo and pay more attention to the mental health of teenagers, and try to avoid the recurrence of such cases.