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Feng Xiaogang advises women not to check their husband's mobile phone. Why do women like to check th

Many couples or husband and wife around often have conflicts because of watching each other's mobile phones, some even break up or divorce, which is a farce caused by a mobile phone, so whether to check the husband's mobile phone or not? Feng Xiaogang suggests that the husband's mobile phone or not to check the best!

We found the "junior" in the cell phone

Many netizens said that they found her husband's affair just by checking the call records. Reporters noted that their way of checking their husband's call records was also bizarre.

In 2006, my husband's mobile phone always had text messages and call records of people who signed "wife", netizen Cheng Cheng said. I secretly set up a call transfer on his cell phone and transferred it to my cell phone. As a result, the 'Junior' called and revealed his intention.

Netizen "love yourself reasonable" says: I found the phone number of "junior three" from my husband's mobile phone bill. I called my husband's phone one by one. I said I was wrong when I was a man. Finally I found "junior three", which almost drove me crazy.

The tighter the investigation, the more emotional

Some rational netizens also think that, as the Spring Festival Gala sketch "a word", husband and wife should have more trust. It's better not to check the phone records of husband, so as not to affect their feelings.

'future': the key is what your husband thinks. If he doesn't have a ghost in his heart, what does it matter to check? If your husband really cares about you, he should let you check and get rid of your heart disease.

Netizen 'leaf and root': the more care you have, the more close you have, the more hurt you will feel, and finally create a vicious circle. It's better to adjust your mind first, don't give your brain the chance to think nonsense.

Netizen "together": the tighter you hold him, the more he takes himself seriously. Don't pay attention to him. He can't understand you.

Another netizen sent a message to the woman who recorded her husband's phone conversation: if you respect him as a person, he will act like a person even if he is not a person; if you prevent him from being a thief, he will become a thief even if he is not a thief.

Want to check most after Valentine's Day

How about housewives checking their husbands' phone records? According to a person familiar with the business information desk of a communication company, more people want to check their spouses' phone records after Valentine's day.

'I can't rest assured that my husband often has to set foot in entertainment places for work reasons. 'Ms. Huang, a citizen, said that her husband would be suspicious if she checked frequently, so she would try to check the call records of' sensitive festivals' such as Valentine's day.

Personal communication record is a right of privacy

The housewife who comes to check the call records usually doesn't ask for the call records directly, but in the name of "abnormal increase of call fee" or "want to know if there is any miscalculation". However, according to our regulations, the call record can only be inquired by the owner himself. '

'checking the call records is also included in our business scope. 'Mr. Zhao, a private detective agency, told reporters that every month there are several checks on the business of communication records. After Valentine's day, Qixi and other Chinese and foreign Valentine's day, it is the peak of business. 'among the businesses that have been handled, there are still a lot of spouses who have been found to have affairs. '

According to Zheng Wenfeng, a lawyer from Quanzhong law firm, personal communication record is a kind of privacy right. Without my consent, no one is allowed to query his communication record at will, or he will be suspected of violating the law.

Zhang Weiwei, an emotional expert: sand must be rubbed in the eyes

Marriage, or all interpersonal relationships, is a closed cycle, which can be turned from good to bad. The key is to see who initiates what kind of attitude first. If you check your husband's mobile phone, it means that you don't trust him, and he may feel hurt, seek comfort from others, cheat, find out what you have found out, cause disputes, and divorce. In the end, women are so angry that they jump to scold men for being nothing, but they never know that they have broken the rules of the game first.

Mobile phones can be checked, but only in two cases: you do find that your husband has abnormal behavior or you want to divorce. Women are happy in two situations. They are really happy or think they are happy. These two kinds of happiness are the same, both are real happiness. If you are married, it means you are an adult. You should understand that the adult world is not black or white. Every day lies fill the ear, who calls you beautiful woman you all agree very beautiful, is that really the case?

Some problems that are not principled have to be muddled along. You always want to avoid rubbing sand in your eyes. The only way is to poke your eyes blind, because there is sand everywhere in this environment. You think you are very happy, so don't bother to test whether the happiness is 100% authentic. This kind of behavior that has been very happy and checked is called disgust. Do you trust yourself or others?

A man's mobile phone can't stand checking. Even if it's nothing, if you want to check it, you can find something, because a man is never as careful, funny and suspicious as a woman. If he wants to play with you, take out the insidious and cunning things in the workplace. Mobile phones can be deleted in a timely, appropriate and in place way. By then, will you really be happy?