In daily life, a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often fight with each other, which is a headache for many men. So what can a man do to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law effectively?
1、 A white lie
A man should be good at reconciling his wife with his mother. If the wife and mother have been carelessly conflicting, and both of them can't afford to apologize, the men need to reconcile them. Most women are more emotional, both need language comfort, but also need a little material temptation. For example, buy a gift that my mother likes, send it to my mother, tell my mother that this is a gift that my daughter-in-law bought specially for her to honor her, and then say a few words of comfort, and then criticize my wife without any pain; Then I will buy some gifts that my wife likes. I will give them to my wife. I will tell her that my mother bought them for her. I will tell her that my mother is old, put down her face and give you a step to pick them up. My mother made dumplings and waited for her to go home for dinner. In this way, the contradiction between mom and wife can be basically solved.
2、 Make a 'MT'
Men should have the courage to transfer the contradiction between their mother and wife to themselves, let them transfer their goals, and take the initiative to pull hatred as an outlet. For example, if your wife is cooking at home, she likes to cook less, but you like to eat more. At this time, the mother will be angry with her daughter-in-law because she loves her son. At this time, the man can't stand by and say the last sentence actively. You don't know, I've been angry recently and dare not eat too salty. I asked her to cook less, Mom, if I don't go to quarrel with you again, I think my mom will laugh it off, and my wife will be very grateful to you. She will remember your taste next time she cooks, and vice versa. If my wife chooses my mom's care, don't go up to my wife indiscriminately. It's a training. My wife is like an outsider. She has one If you want to run out, you should also say that my mother made it according to my taste. If you can't get used to it, I'll fight for you again. Different situations need different ways of dealing with them. The key is to skillfully lead the fire that mom and wife want to send to themselves. Don't let them send it to each other.
In fact, as a man, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can often be alleviated by some white lies. As a daughter-in-law, she often needs to see her mother-in-law to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.