4hw.com.cn: it's often said that many parents are busy with their work, so it's more and more common for children's growth, education and other responsibilities to grandparents or grandparents. So what are the advantages and disadvantages of alternative education? How to solve the problem of alternative education?
How to solve the problem of alternative education
A good mode of intergenerational cultivation and harmony
1. Good family relations
For young children, a good family atmosphere and close emotional connection are the best formula for growth, so babies need to feel the real warmth of family affection in the family environment of the elderly's pity and strict education of parents at the same time.
2. Mutual prior agreement
In fact, parents can communicate with the elderly at home in advance before educating their children, such as what kind of situation the elders can't tolerate, what kind of situation the elderly can tolerate or love more, when to let the children know to be with their parents and so on, so as to avoid unnecessary disputes.
3. Principle of time division
It's easy for children to be dependent and lazy, so the elderly at home can't arrange too many children's daily care projects. If children are too dependent on their elders, there will be more negative effects on children's growth in the future.
What are the advantages and disadvantages of alternative education
1. Good elders and great wisdom
Due to the difference of at least one generation, the elderly with delicate mind and rich growth experience can certainly be trusted as parents, so the care of children in daily life can also be relatively complete and appropriate.
2. Comfortable retirement mentality
Generally, parents have work pressure, and the thoughts and mood of the elderly at home are calmer and more stable than the parents, so they will also have more spirit, patience and love to accompany and nurture young children.
Due to the formation of the trend of social aging, the phenomenon of alternative education is becoming more and more common.
3. Generations of ideas
The elderly are usually easy to establish close and harmonious feelings with their grandchildren. In addition to teaching their children to create and have a good emotional foundation, the elderly will pay more attention to their grandchildren because they are connected with each other.
The shortcomings of the next generation's education are open
1. Too much doting
Once the old man dotes on the children too much, it is easy for the children to have arbitrary behavior, high dependence and poor self-care ability in daily life.
2. Ideas are hard to change
Living and growing up in different times, the idea is bound to be different, and most of the elders have more conservative and stereotyped ideas, which may make children not adjust the social and group mode in the future, and then have disadvantages.
3. Too much interference
Occasionally, when the child is severely demanded by the parents, the grandparents or grandparents in the family are easy to interfere, which makes the parents have no way to correct the mistakes and faults made by the children immediately.