First of all, we should understand that when two people are together, they are the combination of different individuals. Everyone has different views and opinions. What we need is mutual understanding and tolerance;
Secondly, being together doesn't mean that everything is together. We should leave some space for each other to do our own things;
Then, two people should care for each other and help each other instead of blaming each other. Everyone has shortcomings, which are not terrible, but whether they can work together;
Then, in close relationship, we should leave some space for each other's ideas and thoughts, and do not always deal with problems from the perspective of what you think is good for her;
Third, we should be able to give each other a certain space for free social intercourse, not to cut off all contacts with you, but to advance bravely under your care;
Finally, be able to understand each other's hobbies. Even if you don't like it, don't denigrate your partner and lover. Know that respect is the premise and cultivation is the key;
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Love her is to give her support and love, not only in life, but also in thinking, social and hobbies.