Many people are tired not to achieve their own ideals, but to meet the desires of others. So know to refuse, don't be a bad person, can let oneself live a relaxed and free life.
All choices have advantages and disadvantages. No matter how attractive the advantages are, don't choose if the disadvantages are unbearable. If you can bear the worst consequences, do it again.
If you want to make life easy and free, you need to work together and leave the things you are not good at to the professionals. For example, if you wash the lampblack machine, you may have to work hard to clean it. It's better to give it to a professional.
Put off meaningless social activities and communication, and focus on important people and things.
Although a child is a burden in a sense, it is an essential part of 'happiness'. If you want to make life easier and more free, you can't stand without children. However, the way of raising children can be reasonably planned. People are social animals, and children need the identity of the same age circle, so they can let their children go to school.
Set boundaries between people, including the closest parents, lovers, brothers and sisters, children, friends... Do not make anyone's cash machine, trash can.
Love is single-minded, single-minded, hold a person to cross a life, such a life can be relaxed and free.
From the road to the simple, more is not necessarily equal to better, just like taking medicine, as long as the symptoms, one dose is enough, so we should simplify life, do not buy things that do not need to buy, so life will be relaxed and free.