Keep a positive attitude. We go to extremes because our thoughts are negative. Bad things will always pass, and the pain will be short-lived. On the contrary, if our thoughts are not optimistic, we will always bear such pain.
Make yourself smile all the time, and smile when you are happy. No matter how difficult it is, smile. After time's washing, there will always be solutions.
Learn to be grateful. People who are grateful are warm in heart, and life is full of sunshine. Gratitude makes our hearts closer to each other.
Learn to empathize, and don't be aggrieved because the corresponding decision affects you. At this time, let's change our positions and think about what kind of decision will we make when we stand in the other side's position? Maybe that's the truth. It's just that you don't have the right angle and can't see.
Let yourself work harder. If you want to change everything in the outside world, you must first change yourself. If you can't even change yourself, how can you let others identify with you?
Do what you like. No matter what causes you to lose yourself, but you still have to stick to your hobbies and pursue what you like. If you love traveling, you can take a walk. If you love shopping, don't hesitate about your favorite items. Don't be indifferent because of material, on the contrary, do what you think is meaningful, which can arouse our enthusiasm for life.