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Is it right for ordinary families to have rich children

In recent years, it has been popular to raise children with wealth. Why do you say that it is difficult for a poor family to have a noble son, and only three generations can have a noble son? Is it true that parents must have money to ensure that their children will be rich in the future?

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The real enrichment should be the enrichment of spirit and character. It is said that children raised by the rich can resist the temptation of the material world more than those raised by the poor.

So, no matter what money they have, they all spend their lives throwing money at their children.

Others' children have to buy for their own children even if they want to sell iron. In this way, children will not sell their bodies and kidneys for thousands of dollars of mobile phones when they grow up.

Practice has proved that these children, no matter boys or girls, who have only broadened their horizons in material matters, have no gratitude, lack of goals and extravagant life.

Parents began to question the rights and wrongs of rich children.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with rich children. Only money and materials are used to enrich children.

The real enrichment should be the enrichment of spirit and character. Only rich experience and broad vision can form a better personality.

All of these need to be realized by continuous learning.

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Knowledge is the precondition of everything.

No matter for children or adults, rich knowledge reserves will be used without any harm.

With knowledge, there is a weapon to arm the mind.

If the weapon is sharp, it will be able to surprise and shine in front of any situation and any difficulty.

Most of the people who are rich in knowledge are also elegant and modest, with a broader mind and a sound personality.

Knowledge plays an indispensable role in the cultivation of correct three outlooks.

The accumulation of knowledge needs reading and school.

It is very important to guide children to develop good reading habits and learning habits.

In addition to reading and learning, we should also take children to practice outdoors and contact with nature. Instead of spending useless money on famous brand clothes, it's better to take more children around famous mountains and rivers.

With a broad vision, children will not be so easy to haggle.

With rich experience, it is not easy for children to go to extremes because of small setbacks.

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No academic achievements, what to compete with others.

Some parents advocate to raise their children in time, give them enough autonomy, and let them freely control their time and do what they want to do.

This degree of freedom is hard to grasp.

The children are not mature in cognition and future planning. Parents need to guide them to spend enough time and energy on learning.

For a child, his identity is first and foremost a student, and his main task is first and foremost learning.

Before I have no children, I don't think it's important to have a good academic record. Children are happy.

After having children, I realized that good academic performance and high academic qualifications are chips for children to participate in social competition and stand on the society in the future.

Without these, children are not even qualified to run with others.

As a child's first teacher, parents should also spend more time with their children.

Some parents are busy with their career development and give their children to the elderly or nanny under the banner of being good for their children. They think that as long as they give enough living expenses, they are good for their children.

As we all know, children who lack parents' company and discipline are more likely to be withdrawn and go to extremes psychologically than their peers.

Children who grow up with their parents are more likely to have a sense of gain and a higher happiness index.

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The cultivation of good character is inseparable from learning.

Kindness, bravery, independence, modesty and initiative & hellip; & hellip; these words are good for both boys and girls.

As parents of children, of course, we also hope that children can develop such a character.

In addition to genetic factors, the formation of character, parents' words and deeds will play a decisive role.

For example, some parents want their children to be an open and aboveboard person. When they take their children to the supermarket, their parents steal the expensive fruits from the supermarket and let their son eat them immediately.

In the eyes of children, the behavior of parents is worth imitating.

The children who grow up around their parents who like to sneak around like this unconsciously imitate their parents' petty theft.

And often, these behaviors affect his values and make him think it's right. Those who don't become monsters in his eyes.

Therefore, parents should first of all be strict with their words and deeds, and then they are qualified to ask their children.

At the same time, we should be good at avoiding our own shortcomings.

I heard a little story before.

There is a mother who is very timid, especially afraid of small animals.

In order not to make children as timid as she is, she takes them to contact all kinds of animals.

Every time she was afraid of her life, she made a very enjoyable appearance in front of her children.

Sure enough, her children have shown bravery and boldness since they were young.

Similarly, if we want our children to be kind, we should not stop them from helping others, and we should not blindly tell them that begging on the roadside is cheating.

If we want our children to be independent, let them try. Don't be afraid of what he did wrong.

Only by constantly looking for the right in the wrong, can children shape sound and perfect values, right and wrong.

The formation of all this, the self-learning and growth of parents, and the imitation of children from parents are all crucial.

Therefore, it is not unreasonable for knowledge to change fate.

Knowledge is not just so-called book knowledge. To deal with people, face pressure and challenges, choose the future and direction, these all need to learn and accumulate.

These things that precipitate and become part of themselves are all knowledge.