First, about husband and wife. Husband and wife should not talk about each other's shortcomings all day long. For example, you are a poor man. You have no money, no ability and no handsome. You are useless at all. I regret marrying you. Don't take these words for granted. More talk, more quarrels, more quarrels will affect the relationship between husband and wife, affect the harmony of the family. As long as everyone is a person of their own, there is no need to grumble so much in a down-to-earth job. It's like if we don't just want to urinate by ourselves, we will always hold back and go to the right place to vent. If you have emotions, you should vent them reasonably. Don't make sarcasm about your partner's shortcomings all day long.
Second, in addition to not talking about each other's shortcomings at ordinary times, there are also contradictions in the family that should not be talked about in person and publicized everywhere. As the saying goes, domestic ugliness should not be publicized. If you want to solve your family's problems by yourself, you can only tell them to your close friends and relatives. The more people love to publicize family conflicts everywhere, the more others think you can't provoke and dare not offend, because you don't know how to love a family. People who don't know how to love their families are despised everywhere. In fact, family conflict is like you fell and hurt your ass. would you take off your pants and say you fell heavily? can't. Because you know how you behave in this way, people will only make fun of you
Third, don't take your work mood home, and don't put your anger on the adults and children at home. And don't talk about the length of others with your family all day, that is, don't talk about the bad things, which will also affect our mood. From the original happy and cheerful mood, we will become angry with some people, and unfair to some things. In the long run, we will have some bad emotions such as indignation, extreme or impulse, which is very good for our family, especially for the growth of children Bad, because bad mood is bad for our physical and mental health.
Fourth, family members should communicate more with their children. Only through communication can they understand each other and understand each other. But some people are very difficult to communicate, as long as your point of view is a little against him, he will be very angry, say you don't understand and don't understand her, don't wait for you to finish your meaning, you will be furious. This kind of communication is difficult and impossible. In this way, we can only accumulate the usual contradictions and cannot solve them. So I think the best way to communicate is for everyone to speak out their ideas calmly, and don't interrupt or criticize each other at will, no matter right or wrong. When everyone has said the problem, you will know where the contradiction between you is, and there will always be a compromise solution.
Fifthly, no matter how busy the family is, they should get together, because the family relationship will be weak if they get together less, which is a good example for me. At first, my family was very good to me, but due to various reasons, I got together with them more and less and seldom communicated with them. As a result, my family became more and more weak. My family was also disappointed with me, and I felt very guilty. Therefore, harmonious families pay great attention to family reunion, such as eating and activities, and the big and small things in the family need to be done together. In this way, we can enhance family relationship and build a harmonious family.
Sixth, everyone in the family should learn some ways to release bad emotions, which is to avoid bringing bad emotions home and affecting the family. You can talk to the most trusted and secretive person, or in other ways. In addition, learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, different attitudes and different emotions. Or by doing other meaningful things to transfer their bad mood, such as listening to music, doing sports, tourism and so on. A higher level is to turn grief and anger into strength, strive for a higher level, and your mood will change when you get promoted, but this change may take a long time, but it doesn't matter, it's your driving force.