[educate children with action]
Remember that mom's foot wash ad? If you want to be close to your children, then you should also be close to your parents. Most of the time, children's behavior is guided by their parents' behavior, so as parents, you should also care more about your parents and show filial respect to your parents.
[understand the world of children]
As two generations, you and your children will have many different ideas. Don't force your wisdom into their minds. You need to spend time to understand him. He needs to grow up and mature gradually. So you need to get to know his character, ideas, etc. by getting along with him. As much as possible and your children to participate in group activities, more family group tourism, dinner bar!
[understand and understand children]
It is the common ideal of parents to look forward to their children and their daughters. But try not to give such pressure to children as much as possible. Ordinary is also a blessing. Everyone has his own life. When children's performance is not good, less scolding and more comfort. When children make mistakes because they are young and ignorant, they should help more without words and scold less severely. You may not get a perfect son, but you will surely get more family joy.
[approach children as friends]
In ordinary life, try to reduce the seriousness of the elders. Being strict can play a deterrent role in educating children, but it will also make them stay away from you. If you have nothing to do, talk to your child more, relax, smile more, or occasionally play a proper joke on each other, which can promote your relationship.
[give children more private space]
Don't control everything because you love your children too much. Most of the time, the more you manage, the more rebellious your children are. In the end, you may not be able to protect them as you think, but make your distance more and more far away. So do less and better not to peek at children's notes, try to consider not to refuse children's requests to attend friends' parties, not to doubt and ask children whether they are in early love.
Respect for children
Everyone has his own face, and children are no exception. Don't criticize and scold children in front of outsiders. If they make a mistake, try to talk calmly, even if it is to be punished, it should also be at home. Don't let children feel that they have been seen a joke by others.