The marriage life also needs to be managed and maintained, and also needs to create some small interests from time to time.
Create a little taste in marriage
Keep the original childlike mind and create more little happiness.
I think some little happiness, little sentiment and little surprise are indispensable adjustments in marriage life, and also secrets of keeping marriage fresh. My husband and I have been married for 7 years now, but we haven't met the seven-year itch in the legend, because we often have some small movements and small eyes, and we feel that each other is still as good as when we are in love. For example, when the elder is not at home, I will suddenly shout to my husband: 'honey, catch me. 'then, the whole person rushed to hang on him. It's conditioned for my husband to pick me up now. After catching me, my husband and I always look at each other and laugh.
Any little thing can be wagered.
In fact, this habit was formed in college. At that time, we were in love, not in the same place, and often called. In order not to delay our study, we loved to bet. For example, if you score more than 90 points in your English test this time, I will write you a ten page letter. After getting married, I often like to bet. For example, recently, I am losing weight. My husband bet with me that if you lose 5 jin in a month, I will wash the bowl for a month. Ha ha, in order to let him do the dishes, I spelled it.
Be coquettish and praise.
The coquetry here refers to both men and women. Who said that men can't be coquetry? Proper coquetry really doesn't damage your charm of men, but it's very rewarding. For example, my husband called me before work: 'wife, I really want to eat the pork ribs and fish flavored shredded pork. The taste still reverberates on the tip of my tongue. The dishes in the restaurant can't compare with my wife at all. 'what do you mean? It's a meal, but I made it for others.
Occasionally send romantic love words by SMS.
After marriage, I really didn't send messages for a long time. I had a phone call. I said it clearly and implemented it thoroughly. Once, my husband was on a business trip, and I couldn't sleep at night, so I sent him a message: 'dear husband, when you're not around me, I found that I miss you so much. I can't leave you at all. When will you come back? 'then, we started the SMS communication between you and me until two o'clock in the morning, as if we were back in love. On the day when my husband came back, my eyes were different. It was extraordinarily gentle. It seemed that I needed proper romance. This strategy is also suitable for QQ and wechat. It is suggested that all of them should be written communication instead of voice and video.
Let's look at the stars together.
Think about it and feel romantic. Lie on the grass and watch the stars. Talk about each other's dreams, just like TV series. But the reality is that there are fewer and fewer stars in the night sky, and families with children are busy, so it's really not easy to take some time out to watch the stars quietly, which needs to be treasured. One day, I looked out at the night sky through the window and said with emotion, I really want to see the stars. Husband God nagging in front of the computer, ten minutes later, the computer to me, a starry night sky appeared in front of me, that moment, really moved!
Good at using love post it notes.
I love to use this post it because I can write down what you want to say or what you want my husband to do and paste it where he sees it. Once, the next day was my birthday. I wanted to ask him if he remembered. I thought it was too shameful to ask directly. So, I wrote a post it note and stuck it on my husband's computer, 'this gentleman, do you remember that tomorrow is your wife's birthday, please remember to give her a surprise! 'I also drew a smiling face. When my husband walked into the study to work, he saw it naturally. He laughed, walked out quickly, and smacked me on the head with dote. 'is there such a blatant request for a gift? What I wanted to surprise you originally can only be given to you in advance. '
Every time you go on a business trip to another place, remember to bring him / her an interesting gift.
Every woman can't refuse her lover's gift, especially the unexpected surprise. This gift doesn't need to be too expensive or too large. As long as it's carefully selected by you, even if it's only worth ten yuan, it can make your lover very happy, because she cares about your heart, no matter where you are, there is her in your heart. Men are no exception. If you attach a card full of tender words in the gift box, your husband's heart will be happy.
Last year, my husband and I were separated because of work. One day, he asked me to express his suit to him. After packing the suit, I put a wallet I bought for my husband into the box. The photo position of the wallet was put into a family photo of our family of four, and a small card was written, which mainly expressed the yearning for my husband and the expectation for the future. Later, according to her husband, after receiving the unexpected small gift, she felt very warm and happy in her heart. At the same time, she missed our three mothers very much. She thought that she must cheer up and strive for an early family reunion.
Let's take a walk.
Young people say it's easy to walk away. After getting married and having children, it's not so easy to walk away. You walk on the front foot, the children cry on the back foot, and the leaders beat the table with you when you can't finish your work. Therefore, it's even more precious for married people to have a go and go trip.
If you settle your child in advance, let your elders watch for you for two days, and wait downstairs at your lover's company when you leave work on Friday. After picking her up, I told her that we would go to the seaside of Qingdao for two days. Don't worry. My children's grandparents have already picked up at school. I have bought the train tickets for two days on Saturday and Sunday. I have packed my luggage and brought it with me. My travel schedule has also been arranged. I will give her a printed two-day tour strategy of Qingdao. I think what you see is her big mouth, then big hug. It's a big surprise.