What are the taboos in love?
1. Check the position every day and track the whereabouts of the other party
You can make more than 10 calls to your target person in a day. In general, you can make three or four calls a day. Now it's like watching the other person. If you don't know all the whereabouts of the other person, you will feel uncomfortable.
Even if the other party is in a meeting or an important thing at work, it will also be in constant harassment. This kind of life is not unknown. At the beginning, the other party will think it is love, but no one can stand it for a long time.
2. View each other's privacy
Now mobile phone is an object that everyone can say is relatively private. If you check each other's mobile phone every day, it will inevitably cause dissatisfaction of the other party and feel that you have violated the privacy of the other party. In principle, your behavior is also unreasonable. Although you are together, you are still two independent individuals, each with its own friends, space, freedom and so on. When two people are together, you and I can't be separated. Aren't you and I alone when you share your life? Is such a life OK?
3. Track each other's movements
In this case, you should report everything you do to the other party, go to work, have a meeting, meet friends and even eat. This will make you impatient. There are many examples in life. Let each other feel fast suffocation, will only choose to separate with you finally, looking for a more free sky.
4. When the object doesn't answer the phone, he becomes anxious
When the other party doesn't answer the phone, he will be dead and constantly dialing, which will be very annoying to the other party. This is an emotional intelligence problem, & middot; in this way, people with low emotional intelligence will only consider their own feelings, and won't consider the problem from the perspective of the other party. Maybe the other party is busy?
5. Take care of each other's life
For example, what kind of people do your lover make friends with? This is the right and choice of the other party. The most you can do is to suggest, but you have no right to control. If you order the other party, it will make others start to resist you, hate you, and make your relationship slow to deteriorate.
6. There are quite a lot of problems
A person can't be perfect. There are always problems. However, you are a person with problems. You don't pay attention to hygiene, stinginess, slovenness, and lack of progress. All the bad points are occupied by you. The woman can't stand it. The most important thing is that you don't change yourself. If you let it go, you will break the boundaries of the other party. Do you think it's ok It's necessary to continue with you.
You don't care about her
What women want most is men's attention and concern. If you are boyfriend and can't do this, then women will feel unqualified.
For example,
When you promise her something, you always say you forget it for one reason or another;
She asked you, you reluctantly agreed, but also let her think you are perfunctory;
You don't seem to spend too much time and energy preparing for your anniversary. You don't pay attention to her life or her words
For a girl, she can accept you to say to her face: I don't like you anymore. But she can't accept it: you are my boyfriend, but I think you don't care about me at all. This makes women feel insecure and insecure. At the beginning, they may find excuses for you: you are too busy, too stressed and so on. In the long run, it will be sooner or later to break up.
The above seven are taboos in love. If you do it, it will lead to the end of your love. However, if you want to change these problems, it's easy. As long as you realize it's a mistake, don't do it.