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What should boys pay attention to when talking about long-distance love?

it's fate to meet in thousands of miles, but it's not fate to meet in the opposite direction. It's lucky to have a long-distance love, because you have a person who can stick with you, you have a heart that can hold the same persistence and dream as you, and you have a strong love that can challenge the distance. Isn't it a kind of happiness to find such a person to trust you unconditionally in the vast sea of people? So, as boys, what should we pay attention to in the process of long-distance love?

1. Turn on the mobile phone 24 hours a day

Don't let him not find you. No matter what you are doing, she can contact you as soon as possible and you can reply to her as soon as possible. Girls in love, especially those in long-distance love, are sensitive, fragile and generally lack of security. If she can't contact you in the battlefield, she will be confused and feel that you don't care about her. If you do something sorry for her behind her, she will be very sad and sad. So, you need to let her know that I've always been here with you.

2. At least one sentence every day: I miss you, I love you

Every day a warm words, is to give each other sufficient confidence, let her know that you care about her. No girl doesn't like sweet words from lovers. It's necessary for you to show your love every day. Your care and missing will make her feel happy and more secure.

3. Be frank

When you have reached the stage of lover, you should be honest enough and trust enough. Don't hold everything in your heart. Maybe you will think that something I don't tell her is good for her, but she may think that you are not honest, because you hide a lot of things from her, don't tell her anything, and even she will doubt whether you really like her and love her Be honest.

4. During the festival, remember to send blessings

Maybe boys are easy-going and seldom pay attention to these details. However, girls generally care about these festivals. She doesn't ask you to give her any valuable gifts. She just needs a blessing from you to tell her that you are thinking about her and you care about her. Especially when she has her birthday, she must pay more attention to give her some small surprises and accompany her well.

5. Have enough trust in her

If you love her, you have to trust her. Don't doubt her. If you don't have the most basic trust, how can you talk about loving her? Maybe when she turned off the phone and didn't answer your phone, or when she didn't reply in time on QQ, it doesn't matter. What's important is that you can feel that she really loves you and really doesn't mean to ignore you.

6. Never get angry with her

No matter how angry you are at that time, please hold back and don't get angry with her unless you don't love her anymore. A boy should be generous and rational. No matter what, we can all sit down and talk about it. Losing your temper will not solve any problems, and it will make your impression in her mind drop sharply. It will only make your relationship more tense, sit down and have a good chat, find out the problem, and solve it.

7. Say it and do it

I've always thought that promises that can't be made are more hateful than promises that can't be made. A man's great husband, once he has said a word, can't be recalled. That's what he wants. Otherwise, he always talks in vain. Such a person can only be despised and despised. If he can't do it, he can't promise. Since he promised her, he must try his best to do it, let her know that you are a man who speaks with faith, so that he can believe you

8. Don't let the time away from home be too long

Time and distance are the fatal wounds of long-distance love. Never let your girl wait too long. Plan when you can go to see her and when you can be together. Then tell her that she has a thought in her heart, confidence to continue waiting and hope to meet again. It's better to visit her once in a month or two. If you can't wait for her to come, she will have to find someone else. Don't regret it.