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How to face the nagging parents? How to get along?

when it is always difficult to communicate with our parents, many children are more disgusted with their parents' nagging. It's our duty to honor our parents, but sometimes we can't get along with them because our parents are too nagging. How should children deal with their parents' nagging?

1. Teach them new things. With the development of the times, parents will inevitably fail to keep up with the pace of the times. As a child, it is a kind of responsibility and basic filial piety to lead parents to keep pace with the times. Don't let your parents leave the pace of the times, they will feel abandoned. Parents' nagging is not only nagging, but also a manifestation of insecurity.

2. Share your life. Whether you are happy or sad, remember to share your life with your parents. Even if you are thousands of miles away, you should often call your parents to talk about your life. In short, let parents feel that you still belong to them, not dispensable.

3. Ask them. You can consult your parents about things you don't know. The older parents get, the less useful they feel to their children. If you ask them something, they will feel that you belong to them, and they will feel more secure, so they will not often nag you.

4. Accompany them more. Parents' excessive nagging may be a way for them to find a sense of existence. If parents don't know how to communicate with you, they can only nag you. Usually remember to accompany parents more, do not always hold the cell phone. I believe they will get better and better with your company.

5. Better. When we don't do something well, it's easy for us to get our parents' nagging. So we can only make ourselves better. We should correct the questions raised by our parents twice at a time. As long as we do well, I believe that our parents will not always play with this matter.

6. Communication. There are many reasons for parents' nagging, but most of the time, it's because you don't do a good job in one aspect or you don't know what you do. At this time, you should communicate with your parents in time, tell them your situation on your own initiative, and let them fully understand you.

7. Understand. As a child, we should first fully understand the parents' nagging. Understand the reason and purpose of their nagging. If it wasn't for the sake of our parents, they wouldn't be so nagging. So we should not only not be upset, but also be grateful. When we can understand what our parents do, we will not be so hard to bear their nagging.