How do children always buy toys when they go to the supermarket?

many children have a particularly bad problem, that is, as long as they go to the supermarket, or go shopping, they will not leave when they see toys. There are already a lot of toys at home, but they will still perform the movie theater like cracking on the street or in the supermarket. How to control it? Xiaobian is with you.

Make a list plan before going out

No matter how young the child is, as long as he can communicate with you, he needs to make a list plan with the child, which can tell him how much the budget is, and then what he wants to buy, communicate well at home in advance, and let him decide by himself.

Benefits of making a list plan

Let children learn to make a list plan when they are young. First, they can establish a financial management concept. Second, they can control their spending. Third, they can make their own choices and be responsible for their actions.

Now many children are irresponsible, because many choices are not their own initiative, so let them make decisions for themselves since childhood, but they have to bear the responsibility, so that they can cultivate rational consumption, very sensible children.

Agreement on the purchase of toys

I believe that every family is basically a sea of toys. Even if the family is in a normal situation, toys are basically thrown everywhere. Without a little control, children's desire will increase infinitely. So on toys, we should establish a gentleman's agreement with children.

Our family's agreement is: you can only buy one at a time.

No matter what you eat or play, you can only choose the same.

Benefits of gentleman's agreement

Let children communicate with you equally when they are young, and establish an agreement between the two sides, so that children can cultivate the ability of integrity and independent choice when they are very young, so that children can be responsible for their own behavior. Also let the child have the full thinking space. This is to exercise children's comprehensive ability, of course, it also includes children's negotiation ability.

Rational treatment of accidents

If you go out to play and your child breaks your agreement, then you must adhere to your principle. Otherwise, the next time, the child will surely feel that the parents' words are children's play, which will break your agreement again and again.

So we must treat it strictly and rationally.

Don't let go, or you won't be able to clean up next time.

Matters needing attention

Children are the best guide, adults must be strict with their own requirements.