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How to cultivate the virtue of tolerance?

it is often seen that many children grow up to be too selfish to share and treat others with leniency. Especially in the only child family. But children's tolerance virtues need to be cultivated from childhood, rather than waiting to grow up.

1. First, parents and other guardians should create a tolerant atmosphere at home.

When children grow up in such an environment, they will naturally form a habit. In fact, the importance of the environment can be seen from the early three movements of Meng mu.

2. See the advantages of others more than the disadvantages.

This is very important. Many parents can't do it by themselves. They always hold on to their children's shortcomings, but they can't cultivate excellent children in ideology under authority.

3. Teach children to understand and tolerate others.

When you are in trouble, you should think more from the perspective of the other party. At the same time, you should not get all kinds of preferential treatment at home because you are small. You should know the equal relationship from childhood.

4. On the basis of teaching tolerance to children, we should also tell them to distinguish what can be tolerated and what should be observed. It's not a matter of compromise.

5. Can inadvertently create some opportunities for children to deal with their own, to use the method of tolerance.

6. Protect and affirm your child's love. Some children are very loving at first, but their guardians can't carry it forward very well, or they don't have love themselves, and over time they will also wear out their love.