Sihaiwang: the quality of the relationship between husband and wife can be reflected in almost all aspects. A eye contact, simple dialogue, can feel the tacit understanding between husband and wife. Whether the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious or not may affect the children's character more than we think. So the affection of husband and wife has a great influence on children's character? Let's take a look at it with Xiaobian~
Parents love
A family with loving parents and harmonious relationship between husband and wife can provide a good family environment for children. Such children's character will be more peaceful, cheerful and not easy to be rough. Because of the good relationship between parents, children will also have a good feeling and yearning for marriage.
My parents are indifferent
Parents have weak feelings. They often communicate or maintain their families through their children, which is often called "child centered" family. Under the influence of parents' relationship, children are paid too much attention to or interfered with, and their characters will become capricious and selfish.
Strong mom, weak Dad
Because the father is weak and the power is given to the mother, after the role of the family becomes more and more marginalized, the mother will become more and more strong and even say nothing. Children will always identify with their same-sex parents, their daughters will identify with their strong mothers, and over time they will become strong daughters, and their sons will become cowardly and self abased sons who have no responsibility.
Parents divorced prematurely
Many couples who are freed from unhappy marriage neglect the most important point, and the children are the ones who can never be freed. Their inner wounds are often hard to heal all their lives. Their worries, insecurities and fears may never be cured. Children living in divorced families are more likely to suffer from crime, anxiety, depression, hostility, revenge, indifference and other psychological problems.
Parents love to blame each other
Parents like to blame each other. Such a family environment will seriously affect their children's way of life.
Especially when there is an argument between husband and wife, it is easier to say the other side's fault to the child. The impact on children is that they will not respect their parents in the future. One side attacks the other side, hoping to make the child dissatisfied with the other side, and finally only brings harm to the child.
Parents love to fight
Parents' quarrel is very common and understandable for adults, but for children, it's a fall in the sky, and their sense of security will be greatly impacted. At the same time, children will also become violent, grumpy, like parents shouting.
The growth of a child is the result of the interaction between biological genetics and environment. Bad environmental life will cause psychological trauma to the child, some of which are hard to heal for life. Dear mom and Dad, for the sake of children, it's very important for husband and wife to get along.
The real couple is not the one who conquers, but the one who accommodates!
'don't conquer each other' is the most important issue for couples. Conquest is a common thing between husband and wife. It's a big taboo to talk about who is right, who is wrong, who is hurt, and who is over the top
Good husband and wife are always pretending to be stupid and blind to each other, which is to protect the short. Can protect short, is true love!
Love, don't embarrass each other, don't criticize each other, don't blame each other! Foolishly along the way. Silly, because it has been decided, identified, there is no need to know, know, improve, perfect! Progress, accept, no, accept. Love is there.
A lifetime, can have a person, good love, is a beautiful thing. Don't destroy. What a big thing is not worth destroying. Never say too much to your lover. Never do things that destroy the atmosphere and mood.
Everyone can only slowly understand to learn, because there are not many people can do well, so don't be a person who can only say can't do.
Husband and wife are united, and loess becomes gold. There is no right or wrong in family affairs. Only with disharmony can everything be happy! Home is a place of love, not reason. The place to reason is the court.
Home has roots and souls. Roots and souls are controlled by women.
The greatest power in the world is love, and the most powerful weapon is moving. It is love and true love that quarrel, scold and fight.
It's not about breaking up when you're tired, or separating when you're not fit. Even if I am tired, I want to be together, even if I am not suitable, I want to strive for it. I am tired because I care. I am not suitable because I don't love enough. There are not so many excuses for true love.
Two people together for a long time will inevitably quarrel, women often say words like knives in anger, and the man who is willing to stay to quarrel with you and doesn't want to leave you is the man who really loves you.
Together for a long time slowly become dependent, love slowly become family, even if two people together without the original passion, then please don't forget there are feelings. When you want to let go, have you ever thought about why you accompanied her (him) to come here.
Together for a long time, even if not so in love then also have to choose to stay together, these you have done to each other? Women know how to keep each other, men know how to be grateful, it's a lifetime.
In order to have a good character, what kind of conjugal relationship does the family have. We should admit that not all couples are loving and harmonious, because there are so many trifles in marriage. However, the child is always innocent and pure, and the way of getting along with husband and wife also affects the child's character. For the sake of children's good character, dear parents, let's promote the relationship between husband and wife to a better level!