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Why are more and more people setting up a circle of friends only visible for three days? What are th

Why on earth are more and more people only visible to you for three days? Some people say that there is a kind of sharing called overdue waiting, and there is a kind of history that has nothing to do with you. Let's take a look at it

1. Most of them are for safety. At the beginning, wechat was full of family members, friends, colleagues, classmates who were very familiar with each other. Gradually, there were more fitness coaches, people we met at driving school, parents of children who were not familiar with each other, etc. Completely exposing yourself will increase the sense of insecurity. Simply set it to be visible for three days, and it will feel better.

Now wechat will add some people who are not familiar with me, so it's unnecessary to block the circle of friends, but I don't want others to hide behind to spy on my privacy.

2. Can maintain psychological distance, instinctive self-defense mechanism. Keep some privacy. No one wants to be transparent.

3. It's not open. Imagine, if a person adds friends and doesn't show you the circle of friends, but your circle of friends is visible to each other. What's the feeling? It's obvious that others have taken advantage of your trust in him and cheated you.

After all, in fact, it's not your friend who has circled the problem, it's you who have. You become less confident and timid, spreading your feelings towards those who hate you to your true friends. In this way, your true friends will only fade away.

4. Social pressure in the circle of friends. I don't want my new friends to know who I used to be, but my old friends won't go through the circle of friends because they already know each other well. As long as you know the wind and rain you experience, and in fact, many times, a state is a moment of feeling, after that second, it will lose its meaning, and there is no need to show.

5. The life span of a circle of friends may vary from half an hour to three hours, but it doesn't need three days. For the audience in the circle of friends, when you brush it, you will brush it. If you can't brush it, you will let it pass. To put it bluntly, it's similar to the reading habits of microblog, and instantaneity is greater than everything. In addition to the relationship between new friends and secret love, few people go to the circle of friends to watch it all the time.

In a word, those who set up a circle of friends for three days don't need to be blamed, and those who complain about opening this function are not glass hearts. After all, everyone has their own freedom and reasons. I hope everyone respects everyone's choice.