1. Self discipline gives you freedom
When I was in high school, my teacher told you that it was easy to go to college. The fact is, we need to work hard at any stage of life, and constantly learn new knowledge. There are many people in the world who are better than you and work harder than you.
Just entered the university has a lot of free time, read novels, watch Korean dramas, visit Taobao, play games, it's very easy. Don't indulge in this easy to get short-term pleasure. It really doesn't make any sense.
There are few dormitories, free time to study in the library. You should know how important the learning atmosphere is.
Don't hang up, you can not like the major, but the results represent your learning ability, and there are attitude problems.
There is no regret medicine in the world. When you find a job in your senior year, you can't cry.
Many college students always make up their mind to study hard after the final exam next semester.
But at the beginning of the new semester, there is a new round of continuous eating and dying, intermittently satisfied.
Lazy like a pig, but dare not like a pig, lazy and comfortable.
Many college students feel that high school is the peak of their diligence.
Self discipline is not innate. It's a habit. You need to cultivate the habit of self-discipline and persistence artificially. People have inertia.
What is hard to do and what should be done are often the same thing.
Meaningful things are often not easy.
2. A sense of purpose is important
Don't cover up strategic laziness with tactical diligence.
Some people always tell you that the university must read 100 books, to participate in the community to make contacts and cultivate social skills.
There is no end to learning and no end to reading. Do everything with purpose, it will be more efficient. Everyone has his own ideal and everything should be based on the economy. So, first, prepare for his future work. If you are not satisfied with your major, you can change it. If you can't change it, you can study on your own. If you can't do it, you can take a postgraduate exam. There is a way everywhere.
You should plan for what you want to do, not your time.
Think clearly about the work you are engaged in, go to the recruitment website (Zhilian recruitment, 51job, etc.) to see the skill requirements required by the work, and disassemble the objectives. Don't try so hard. It's useless to move yourself.
1、 List the skills needed for the job
2、 Divide the skills and complete one skill learning in each stage
3、 Make a plan for yourself, set the time and accomplish the goal
For example, CET-4 or IELTS, many companies have requirements when looking for a job.
For IELTS writing and speaking, you can go to study in detail, find materials and find foreign teachers to practice speaking.
He who has high demands on himself, who wants to get rid of his superiors, gets rid of his inferiors.
3. Contacts: no more friends
People don't come from eating. When you're good, people will gather automatically. No one likes friends who drag themselves all the time.
There's no point in trying to fit in. You want to go shopping. You want to buy a 1000 yuan skirt. But the economic conditions of other families are different from those of your own.
Some students can muddle along and inherit the family industry as soon as they graduate, but you can't. You have to find a job by yourself.
Roommates are only randomly assigned by the school. There are always inappropriate characters. You don't have to make friends.
Looking for jobs can be all online resume, contacts, not to use.
4. See more of the world, ask someone who is better than you and more experienced than you
It's very important to be knowledgeable. The more you see the world, the more you can enrich your choice and choose your favorite career.
People with high salaries in the society are not necessarily smart and hardworking. Maybe they just have more information than you. The poor information will cause the gap between you and him.
Summer and winter can find their own internship, school recruitment is easier than social recruitment into large companies, large companies internship can give you resume points.
Non 985 or 211 school graduates, it is difficult to enter large companies (Tencent, Baidu, Huawei, etc.) in social recruitment, and there is still a certain opportunity for school recruitment.
I am now working in a bank, and most of the schools recruit banks, and they are 985.
In some industries, one graduation is nearly ten thousand monthly salary. In some industries, working for three years is not necessarily ten thousand. Choose a career cautiously!
Let the development of the industry drive your personal development. Even if you don't have to work hard, you are still moving forward.
5. Part time is enough
After four years of college, what you should do most is to improve your competitiveness in the workplace as much as possible. There will be opportunities for you to make money from your work. Handing out flyers, tutors, odd jobs, these part-time jobs are really meaningless. Do you really lack these tens of dollars?
If you don't really have the money to spend your days, you'd better study hard or find some part-time jobs that can exercise yourself. University these part-time jobs may cost 20 yuan an hour. If you spend your time on self-development, it may cost 100 yuan an hour to work in the future.
6. Face is just a skin bag, but it makes you confident
The source of self-confidence lies in what you have. They are your foundation. Of course, there are other people's attitudes towards you.
I have to admit that good looks are really a pass.
Girls should dress appropriately, learn to make up, do not do and will not be the same thing. Boys should not be sloppy. It's important to dress neatly.
Even in love, they are attracted to each other, appreciate each other, fall in love at first sight, the face of the clock.
In the workplace, it's also the first impression.
7. Develop your own highlights
When you write a resume, you will always reflect on one sentence: what is your resume better than others' and whether it attracts HR highlights.
Highlights in professional skills, interests and hobbies, and certificates.
My work experience: Excel, PPT and PS are all necessary work skills. Don't wait to use them to learn in a hurry.
Mind mapping software is suitable for taking notes when learning.
When you want to watch a play, learn a new skill.
I have students around me who study Japanese by themselves and take the Japanese second grade. After graduation, they entered Japanese enterprises.
There are also students in a well-known training institutions to pay English, a monthly salary of 15, 000, and is an internship.