Many female friends think that if a boyfriend doesn't respond to a message in seconds, it means that he doesn't love himself, doesn't pay attention to himself, or even doubts whether he has an affair with other girls. Then Xiaobian has made a survey on this issue. Let's take a look at it with Xiaobian
But women's sense of security really can't rest on men completely, but should come from their own heart more.
There is a saying that even in a relationship, you should keep the ability to be single at any time. It's better to make yourself stronger than to be nervous because you're afraid that the other person will leave you. When two people love each other, one can still live a wonderful life. Security and security are sometimes not the same concept. 2. The most difficult thing in a relationship is mutual trust
In two people's feelings, if there is one thing is the most important, maybe it is the trust to each other. If you can't even trust each other, the relationship may be in crisis.
If a person doesn't reply to the message in seconds, there may be many situations. Maybe the mobile phone just runs out of power. Maybe there's work that can't be put down. Maybe he doesn't hear the prompt & hellip; & hellip at all;
If you start to be suspicious just because you don't have a second response, it will not only hurt your feelings, but also expose your mentality of worrying about gain and loss. In essence, you are not confident in yourself.
More times, he is tired, you are tired, the lack of trust, let your love stumble. Can give the other side more trust, in fact, is also to own self-confidence. 3. Second back is not necessarily love. See what he has done for you
If the other half can always return your message in seconds, you will feel warm and have a feeling of being valued. But in fact, your heart also knows that it's really necessary to judge whether a person loves you or not, and you can never rely on this alone.
If one party's possessive desire is strong enough to regard the other party as his own belongings, or even interfere with each other's freedom of life, it will inevitably cause the other party's antipathy. All possessiveness is not self-confidence in this feeling and oneself.
When you are not feeling well, send a message to him, and he will reply to you immediately, asking for help, telling you to have a good rest, but do nothing; or he will return to you after an hour, but the person has arrived at your door, bought hot porridge for you, and is ready to take you to the hospital. Which one moves you more?
In the end, it's important to have you in your heart, and the practical action you give is the most important. Perhaps the best relationship between two people is that no matter whether you return my information in seconds or not, I know you love me. Second back if perfunctory, I would like to receive your serious reply, even if later, what does it matter?
Finally quote a famous saying of marlinsky: the first love without experience is charming, but the love that can stand the test is priceless.