Big cities are cruel and simple. Respect equality of opportunity, but you have to fight for it; advocate natural selection, so a little slower will soon be eliminated.
And in a small place, there are human feelings everywhere. Find a job, fall in love and do something. Even if you go to the supermarket downstairs to buy some fruit, you can get a few yuan cheaper if you have acquaintances. "It's gold that always shines in a small place. It's the same nonsense. It doesn't matter. It has no contacts. What's your ideal?
Big cities won't give you chicken soup, but everything is clearly priced, including your efforts.
A few days ago, there was a hot topic: why in today's China, the wealthier the family, the lower the proportion of their children studying science and engineering? There is a highly praised answer. Science and engineering is hard to be true, so as long as the poor children who have no way out go to study science and engineering, the social class can slowly rise. '
The truth is mutual. Beishangguangshen is also a rising channel for countless ordinary people, a channel for social mobility, allowing ordinary people of birth to flow into the upper middle class. Because, there, regardless of the hero's origin, we all rely on talent and ability to work hard.
In big cities, there are 10000 possibilities to live. You can choose to work like a million yuan a year in Beijing or live like a million yuan a year in Shanghai. In my hometown, life seems to end at a glance, and we all follow the same path of life. After graduation, I was arranged to find a stable job. Civil servants are the best. After work, I would like to go on a blind date. I would like to find someone who looks like honest to get married. After marriage, I would urge to have children. I'd better hold two for three years. My children are both complete and happy... Life is more boring than the schedule.
In addition, many people choose to live in big cities for another reason -- to escape from their original families.
In the third and fourth tier cities, especially in the small villages of the 18th tier, it's the original sin for you to wear a sling and go out, and you will be pointed out by the aunt next door -- 'not solemn, frivolous. 'but in big cities, there are not so many restrictions on life. After 70, they can tattoo, dance, scald, and after 90, they can also match red beans and wolfberry with wine. Life is endowed with one thousand and one possibilities, as long as you dare to think, as long as you dare to live.
Finally, I would like to say that many people come to big cities when they are young. No matter how hard they are now, they will thank themselves for this choice many years later.